- 5 years ago
- Wedding: March 2013
Well i need some advice on an issue I am having! I don’t know if I’m being a brat or just
stupid. Ok well my and my fiance have been together for 4 years now and we have grown
so close and our love for each other is amazing. He has a younger sister who just turned
18 she has been dating her boyfriend for less than a year, so on Christmas day all
his family is there and then his sister’s boyfriend proposes!!!! So here are two 18
year olds who are barely going to graduate from High School about to get married.
We thought ok well they are adults that fine. We assumed they would have a long
engagement due to them not having money to pay for a wedding or let alone a place
to live. But his parents are the ones that will pay for the wedding and well they even
offered to go live with them. Now if you ask me when you marry someone it’s
because you are ready for that responsibilty to have your OWN place. Anywho the
wedding is in the summer four month after OURS!!! I feel very iffy about it. I’m not
jealous I mean why would I be I just feel like they don’t know what they are getting
into then we ask them what is the rush and they said that they want to start young
and not get married old. I’m sorry but I’m not old at 23 I’m just MATURE and
RESPONSIBLE!!! i just want this feeling to go away I feel weird IDK.
Any advice would help.