Confused- what kind of guy is he?

posted 2 years ago in Relationships
Post # 2
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2016

What the fuck? You are in a “race” for him? He sounds like a jackass.

It also sounds like you guys broke up, which you are probably better off anyway.

Post # 3
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Bumble bee

What kind of guy is he? He’s a shit. 

Post # 4
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4238 posts
Honey bee

I was going to say “never speak to him again” before I saw you had been together for TWO YEARS.

What the hell? Can you tell us more about your relationship? Do you guys live together? What is he normally like? Unless this was severely, severely out of character for him, I would probably not speak to him until he got back, then inform him that we were no longer an item- of course, depending on if you live together, etc., this could be more difficult. 

Post # 5
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2017

How old are you? He sounds like he’s a teenager. Tell him you don’t play games, so if he wants a race, you quit.

Post # 6
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Bee Keeper

Well isn’t he the fucking prize? Boy, bye. 

Even if he sobers up and comes crawling on his face all superficially charming and remorseful, please have enough self-respect not to let Mr. Uber-douche weasel his slimy-assed bottom-feeding self back into your life. 

I fully believe in holding people accountable for things they say when they’re drinking. Sober him may have better sense than to send such juvenile frat-boy relationship ending garbage to you- but drunk him = inner him with the filter removed. A decent guy wouldn’t say you’re in a race for him and need to step up your game, even if he was shit-faced. 

Post # 7
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3780 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 2016

What the actual fuck? I would remember that (super cliche but true) statement “drunk words are sober thoughts” then I would dump his ass and go find someone who isn’t competing for anything. This is crazy. Has he done other douchey things in the past or is this out of the blue?

Post # 8
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2015

A race to the bottom, apparently. 

you paid for part of his ticket and he tellls you you’re in a race with German girls and you’re coming in last. 

 This guy is suffering big delusions about his own entitlement and worth, and that’s never a good sign for someone who’s supposed to be a partner. Even if he apologizes, his entitlement wasn’t a mistake. 

DTMFA.

Post # 9
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480 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2017

What the hell?! This guy is an asshole.

Post # 10
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396 posts
Helper bee

Wow! What a douche!

I’m sorry bee, frankly, even if he tries to apologize I’d be concerned that he slept with other women on this trip. 

Two years is a long time but I would not stay in a relationship with someone who acted like this. He should be grateful to have such a loving gf who paid for half his ticket and not send her photos of other girls telling her she’s in a “race”. 

 

Post # 11
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3347 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2017

I would be so far gone after that phone call. What kind of person is he? He is a piece of shit. You’ve wasted 2 years on him… race you butt out of there. 

Post # 12
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5091 posts
Bee Keeper

What a jerk. I hope you stand your ground and that you truly are done with him.

Post # 15
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6343 posts
Bee Keeper

If he calls or texts you back tell him you don’t have time to respond, you are in a race of your own (to find a decent human to spend your time with). He sounds like an ass. Buh bye. 

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