- 9 years ago
Hello everyone! I am getting married in a couple months and I am having a few problems with my bridesmaids. I know this might sound selfish, but I have gotten my feelings hurt because my bridesmaids have not stepped up to throw me any kind of shower. My sister is my Maid/Matron of Honor and she is throwing me a bbq, which is great but the other bridesmaids have done NOTHING. Some of them are students and I understand if money is an issue but I do not want any huge production, really I would rather them just acknowledge that they aren’t doing anything rather than how they are acting now which is making me feel like they don’t care about me and my wedding. Also, one of my bridesmaids is getting married 6 months after me and another bridesmaid, who I considered my best friend out of the bunch, seems way more interested and excited about her wedding than mine. I understand that we are both planning weddings at the same time but she makes comments to me like I’m not even engaged and it is all about our other friends wedding. I am just feeling a little confused because I thought these girls were really close friends of mine and ever since I’ve asked them to be in my wedding I just feel like they don’t care. I think they just need to think about the fact that everyone has a turn with their wedding so maybe they should think about how they’re treating me for when their turn comes around. I just need advice on what I should do, if anything because I feel like there isn’t much I can do without causing lots of problems. So please help so I can stop feeling upset towards my bridesmaids! Thanks!!