(Closed) Confusion About Wedding Party

posted 6 years ago in Grooms/men
Post # 3
2622 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

No, wait until you hear more. You have done your part by reaching out to them.

Its possible they asked you too early and are now going a different direction.

Post # 4
46454 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Speak to the groom and tell him you need more information. Ask him if he still wants a bachelor party. If he does, he has to hand over some information so you can plan- starting with the names and contact information for the rest of the wedding party, the dates he is available, does he have anything he’d liek to do or not to do.

Tell him if he can’t provide this information you won’t be able to plan the bachelor party.

Post # 5
2493 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

@dwainwr123:  I would start out by telling them you need to set aside time to talk about your role in the wedding party. Talk to the groom and let him know that since the wedding is soon, you need some direction towards organizing the bachelor party, including who is in the wedding party, who should be invited and what area it will be hosted in. As forbdates and guests, I would tell him that you are planning to get a hotel room, but need to know if you are allowed a date so you can arrange that before the rooms are sold out.


I must say, it seems odd that at two months out you were given a save the date. Are you sure it’s not a wedding for sept 2013?

Post # 7
82 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@dwainwr123:  Is there anyone else you know that’s supposedly in the “wedding party” you can ask if they’ve heard anything?

Post # 8
1130 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@dwainwr123:  I haven’t heard of this, it seems odd to me. I agree with PP. Don’t plan anything until you get information from the groom about who he wants at the part and give you some contact info so that you can get in touch with everyone and plan.

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