(Closed) Confusion with MOH…

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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7975 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

Traditionally the Maid/Matron of Honor plans the shower, and the bride has nothing to do with it. BUT that’s silly tradition! If you want to be involved, then be involved! And if you’d rather she plan it, then ask her to do that for you, in a nice way (try something like, “I’m already so stressed out with wedding plans, do you think you could do most of the planning of my shower for me? That would be a huge help! if the cost is too much, my dad can help out.”). 

It sounds like you guys have talked it out, and that’s good. I don’t think you were out of line for wanting her to do the planning; it just sounds like a miscommunication!

Post # 5
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7975 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

Lees! don’t do it over text, hahaha…. that’s why it went wrong! Silly girl, next time call her instead of texting!

Post # 7
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7975 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

are you worried this will affect your friendship with her? Maybe you two need to hang out and not talk about the wedding or shower or stuff for an evening! just girl time 🙂

Post # 9
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5823 posts
Bee Keeper

Sounds like you need to talk to her about what is expected of a Maid/Matron of Honor.  She may not know what she needs to do!  Make a list of things to talk about with her, and lay down all the tasks ahead of you and who will take care of them.  You don’t have to worry about fighting in the future if she’s on the same page.

Post # 10
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Do you just have her in your wedding party or are there other BMs involved?

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