Post # 1
I feel like I am not.connecting much with husband. I don’t know If it is just me as I am not very open with my feelings at times and maybe a bit scared.of being shot down if I open up too much. Anyone else experience this and what do u reccomend. Obviously I need to learn to open up instead of being scared of everything.
Post # 2
misskitty90 : This is very vague. Did you connect to him before you got mareuwd?
Post # 3
I agree with pp. Were you connecting before getting married? If not, why not and why get married if you and he aren’t on the same page? But first, please explain “connecting”. Maybe getting things clearly explained can help you understand how you are not communicating well.
Post # 4
More context required, but I’d note that as relationships change over time, so too must the ways in which you and your partner connect. For example, in the beginning of a relationship, cute habits you develop (special date locations, hobbies, even types of food etc.) can bring you together, but over time they can start to just feel complacent. If you want to find new ways to connect, you need to do new things. Pushing outside your comfort zone physically can be a good way to create space for sharing new conversations and ideas.