(Closed) constant anxiety about wedding

posted 9 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
7294 posts
Busy Beekeeper

i understand. i opened your thread because i also have constant anxiety about my wedding. and i only have 17 guests!  the anxiety and the nightmares are becoming more frequent and distressing the closer i get.

regarding your dress, do you have time to get a new one?  i bought a dress and then regretted it big time. sold it and bought one i LOVE. its one of my favorite things about the wedding now. 

but for so long i have just had this terrible, nagging feeling that its just not going to be good.  then i will have good days when major decisions are made and i feel excited. but more often than that, its that nagging sense of dread i can’t shake. so let me just say you are not alone. i am hoping to write back in 3 weeks and say it all worked out fantastically and i was worried over nothing!

Post # 5
7294 posts
Busy Beekeeper

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@Meealissa: i know!  i do have some enjoyable days though, so i hope they come for you too!  but i wish the nightmares would stop.  the latest is that i was late for my ceremony because i couldn’t do up my dress properly, and then half the people (from my 17!) left!  and then even my brideamaids could not be bothered to stick around for pictures on the beach – which i am SO looking forward to!!!

another one was (and i think it stems from the fact that i still have not chosen a hairstyle), i got my hair done and it was just hideous and it put me in a bad mood for the rest of the day as i was so mad at myself for not just bringing a freakin picture of what i wanted.  when i woke up, the feeling just stayed with me – its too late to do anything about my hair! (of course now i realize its not)

Post # 6
54 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

Same here! I always worry about everything, whetherr I’m doing it right, etc, and planning something with this many pieces is a big ball of stress. I just want my family to be there, but I have enough of them that it’s not going to be a tiny event.

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