Constantly Feeling torn…

posted 2 years ago in Relationships
Post # 31
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4887 posts
Honey bee

This is deal breaker stuff right here. Your heart won’t let you move on? It’s hard but you have to. There is no way this ends well. 

Post # 32
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: January 2015

How is this even a question?? He should’ve been dumped like, yesterday. 

Post # 33
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10587 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: City, State

TwilightRarity :  

Punched him and then had him arrested for multiple counts sexual assault and battery.

Post # 34
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6097 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2016

sassy411 :  And then sued him for making me hurt my hand on his damn throat!

Post # 35
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3023 posts
Sugar bee

Joyce1 :  OK… i know you arent looking for everyone to say leave him, but here is the part that bothered me.

You said you cant seem to pull yourself away because your heart wont let you. So, OK he touched your sisters – no big deal i guess. Would you still have the same “he didn’t mean it, he was only drunk”mentality if this was your mom? your neice? It just sounds like one of those moms who wont leave her Boyfriend or Best Friend because he only touched the kids once by mistake…

im sorry to take it there, but thats just what jumped out at me. 

What do you mean by “changed his drinking habits”? like he doesnt do it at all ? Only when you are around to supervise? He doesnt get *as* drunk anymore? It is going to take a lot more for your family to see he has changed. Could be years or never to be honest. I am assuming he formally apologized? 

Post # 36
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Helper bee

If my SO grabbed my sister’s ass he’d probably be more worried about her SO beating the living crap outta him.

But the above is right, if you really love him and want to stay with him then you have to realize that forgiveness if not going to come overnight, if ever. 

If you really think it’s his drinking that’s the problem, he needs to sign up for AA. 

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