- 5 years ago
- Wedding: November 2012
I’m not sure if this is the right place to post this so let me know if it should be moved!
I’m trying to decide if I should reach out to my dad’s ex-girlfriend because I recently found her on linkedin… She was like my second mom after my parents divorced when I was little for almost ten years and then she kind of disappeared… My dad’s explanantion was that she wanted to get married because she thought she was getting old so she went back to her ex (she and my dad had broken up for about a year at one point and during that time she dated this guy but she had stayed in contact with us that whole time) who wanted to marry her but it was all very secretive and weird because my dad was really sad and didn’t want to talk about it…
I really don’t want to open old wounds for my dad and I don’t want to mess up his current relationship, but on the other hand I really want to contact her and see how she is because she was such a part of my life for so much of my childhood… What do you think I should do??