(Closed) Continuing Saga . . . Family Drama

posted 9 years ago in Family
Post # 3
109 posts
Blushing bee

Family business can get messy. I think you are right that in hindsight, it would have been better to have recommended she select a different flower girl. If your sister has not changed, and your want to limit interation (and protect your children), this may be a good opportunity to fill your daughter in on family dynamics.  Without going into detail, your daughter needs to know some of the history and the reasons your sister hasn’t been included in past family gatherings.  I wish you all the best.

Post # 4
215 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Doesn’t matter. This isn’t your wedding, this is your daughter’s. I don’t care if your sister was evil or whatever. It’s perfectly fine to tell your daughter what happened, but acting “angry/stressed” on the most important day of your daughter’s life will hurt everyone, especially your daughter.

Post # 5
2104 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Unless you are worried about her murdering someone or there are restraining orders- suck it up. It’s her wedding. You can ignore your sister. If she does something in poor taste it will reflect poorly on her, not you, not your daughter. 

Post # 6
2413 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

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@SiriusOne:  What she said!

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