(Closed) Continuing the debate on whats considered cheating…

posted 11 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: Whats your take on Pornography or Strip Clubs. Cheating or Not?

    NO

    YES

    50/50

  • Post # 32
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: March 2010

      Porn would not be as big of a deal to me as the strip club unless he were hiding. I guess I feel why are you hiding if you aren’t doing anything wrong? Strip clubs on the other hand are off limits. I have been very clear about this with Fiance & his best man (he would love to take Fiance there for bachelor party. Fiance would prefer paintball & beer.). Maybe it is because a former Boyfriend or Best Friend would go a lot & at that point in my life I tried to be understanding and ignored my feelings and ended up burned (not that the strip club led to him cheating it was his own personal issues). I have just learned that it is okay for me to not be comfortable with some things and that fact that Fiance and I are able to discuss, understand each other, and agree is just one more reason why I love him. I too have heard horror stories about private stripper  parties and the things they do. Some of the things they do I wonder if men find sexy or if they are just curious… who thinks of these things? Ice cubes? Sitting on a man and hitting him in the face with “toys”?

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