(Closed) Controlling SIL

posted 6 years ago in Family
Post # 3
Member
506 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

@JulepJubilee65:  My thoughts are that you are not in the wrong at all. You aren’t in the bridal party and she doesn’t have a say so in what you wear. However have you seen the options of what she wants you to wear? It never hurts to be the bigger person and try to compromise for the sake of family peace. Is it the color that she has a problem with?

Post # 5
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7673 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@JulepJubilee65:  She is out of line asking what you will wear. (You’re not in the bridal party, so she doesn’t get a say). Simply say, “I will decide closer to the wedding day”. Then when you finally are able to reveal you are pregnant, take a stronger line, saying you will wear what you like and what is comfortable.

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