(Closed) Coping with MIL during Planning and her rudeness to FI and my parents…

posted 9 years ago in Family
Post # 3
122 posts
Blushing bee

wow I really dont know what to say, but i’ll give it a go.

1st i am sooo sorry i cant imagine living with that *bug hugs*

i’m pretty firey myself i would have given her a quick slap for smoking in myparents house for a start.

the next timje she gives u any problems smile tell her you know that her son in the light of her world but this is your wedding and as much as u appreciate any assistance she is willing to give she needs to understand that it is your day, you will be directing the show and thats how her cookie is crumbling- hug her and get on with making your wedding the day you always dreamed of x

Post # 4
5109 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 2011

Im sorry you are struggling with this. My situation is very simalar to yours. FI’s mom is very rude to me, my parents, and now Fiance because he stuck up for me etc. Its tough. It sucks when parents dont even take their childrens feelings into account. Fiance just gave up he is done. Its sad but true. Everyone just needs to accept thats the way she is. She probably isnt going to change if she has treated you the same was for over 4 years. At least thats what its like in my experience. You just have to be happy knowing that your other family and friends are supportive and take her for what she is worth. dont let her get you down!! This is supposed to be a happy time for you and your Fiance. You hope for the best, but be prepared that sometimes she is going to make your lives harder than they need to be.

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