Post # 1
As some of you know I started to miscarry last Tuesday and got a confirmation Friday. It has been so difficult. I have my good moments and my bad. I do not have any friends who have dealt with this, thankfully I have my mom who did deal with a miscarriage before. I have looked for support online and the outpour of support has been amazing. I came across this blog entry and was so happy that someone gets it.
Tonight is my appt to go over details and I’m praying for strength and courage.
Post # 2
Pregnancy loss is a club that no one wants to be a part of and if you haven’t dealt with it you cannot understand the immense pain and heartache it brings. Although you may never fully heal (I still cry about it even though I’m 38 weeks pregnant and it happened over a year ago), it does get easier. Sending my prayers that you find strength and courage during this difficult time.
Post # 3
I’m so so sorry you are going through all of this right now. I lost a peanut a few years ago. It’s easily one of the most difficult things a mother can face. It’s been 5 years and I still have emotional moments. Keep your chin up babe, this too shall pass <3
Post # 4
Mrs_Em: Yeah that couldn’t be any more true. It’s hard to understand unless you’ve been there. Thank you for your prayers, it’s truly what I need. I am sorry for you loss but so happy you had your rainbow baby <3
Ama14: It is so difficult. I am sorry for your lose as well. <3 thank you so much for the support.
Post # 5
I’m so sorry for your loss. I highly recommend the TTC after miscarriage thread here on the bee. Even if you will not be TTC again right away, it’s a wonderful support system. These ladies helped me so much after my mc in August, even when I had made a decision to put off TTC again for a few months. It’s a roller coaster of emotions, and it’s much easier to go through when you have the support of other people who know exactly what you’re going through. I’m currently 7 weeks pregnant with my *hopefully* rainbow baby (fingers crossed) and I still pop over to that thread to read others’ stories and words of encouragement when I’m having a bad moment. Take care of yourself! You’re in my prayers.
Post # 6
I’m so incredibly sorry for you loss. It’s not easy. I’m coming up on one year since my MC. The bees were so encouraging and sweet and helped me feel like I wasn’t alone. It really helped me let some out some of the feelings I didn’t know what to do with. Sometimes its helpful to talk to people who are outside of the situation. Everyone deals with grief in their own way, but I just wanted to let you know that you came to a great place for support. ((HUGS))
Post # 7
I saw this today and thought it was a good read, even though it’s about more than loss
Post # 8
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I’m so sorry hun. It’s not an easy thing at all. Thankfully, people are getting more open about it so you absolutely do not have to grieve and suffer in silence.
Post # 9
I’m so sorry you’re dealing with this. I have no advice to offer you but I’m thinking of you.
Post # 10
Kay1126: I have joined that thread and I happy to have the support of all the ladies! Aww I hope this baby is your sticky baby!! Best of luck
Peaceoutboyscout: Thank you. Yes its comforting to talk to women who know what I’m going through. I’m hoping with time I will feel better
sherryberry: THank you. I feels good to talk about it
Lcturner3: Thank you so much that means a lot
Post # 11
eecuadrado: I am so sorry for your loss. I cannot even imagine what you are going through. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Post # 12
bry815: Thank you I truly appreciate that
Post # 13
So sorry I am going through this right now as well.. It is so painful.. i hope you are doing okay.
Post # 14
So sorry for your loss. Have you heard of My Miscarriage Matters ?