- 9 years ago
- Wedding: May 2009
Ok, I don’t know where to start but from the time me and my cousin were in diapers. Our whole lives her parents my aunt and uncle have tried to make everything a competition between us and she grew up to be the same as them. We are very close in age and have always done everything together. My aunt loves to talk down about whatever I or my mother are doing and then copy?? how weird. when I turned 16 I got a red camaro my aunt talked down and said they would be getting my cousin a better car etc and then she got the exact same car 4 weeks later. there are many many instances where this has happened. ok now fast forward to the present me and my cousin started dating are now fh at about the same time within 2 months 4 yrs ago well her and her fh had not even talked about getting married when my fh proposed in feb2009. My fh is in the army and deployed so we decided on nov2010 and I have started planning well as soon as i told her we were engaged she started planning her own wedding before her fh even asked her!! she pretty much talked him into buying her and ring and is now planning on a june 2010 wedding. I had told her a few of my ideas thinking i was safe before bc they had not talked about getting married. now she wants a destination beach wedding the same as mine and is trying to find the house I picked by searching online. she is copying my flowers colors and my center peice idea. my aunt even said why dont you guys have a double wedding in june so we can split the price!! I dont know what to do atleast half the guests will be the same and I dont know if I want to get married on the beach anymore bc it will be so alike and now her wedding is before mine. help ideas??