(Closed) Could everyone’s constant guessing delay his proposal????

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
220 posts
Helper bee

I’m sorry!  That must have been so stressful for you.  And if you are anything like me, probably hurtful as well, like other people are questioning his commitment level right in front of you. Weddings while waiting can be tough.

I can relate to the frustration that others’ comments can cause.  A few weeks back a mutual friend asked my boyfriend right in front of me if/when we’re getting married.  My boyfriend was clearly shocked by the question and said he wasn’t planning anything. Of course I was stunned and really upset because that is not the impression he had given me in previous talks. He realized I was upset right away and as soon as our friend left he apologized explained that he didn’t mean it and was caught off guard by the question because he wants it to be a surprise.  Hang in there!

Post # 4
4284 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

We use to get this all the time!!! Once I talked to friends and family and asked them to lay off….. few months later…. he proposed!!!!!

Post # 6
528 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I have to say I was totally in your position! Me and Fiance were together 4 1/2 yrs before he finally proposed (or agreed after much nagging!) and from a year into our relationship people were relentless in asking when we were getting married- it was everywhere we went, all the time! Then our best friends got together and got married, which made it all the worse! Only after these friends were married and we felt people weren’t so relentless in their questions about us getting married, that Fiance decided we should get engaged! And he is totally the type of person who won’t do something if evryone is on his back about it, or if he thinks it looks like he’s doing it because of everyone going on about it. Stupid people! I think it’d happen at least a year earlier if it weren’t for rude, nosey people- I feel your pain, but hang in there!

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