(Closed) Could it happen?

posted 5 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
23597 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

@Bettyboo1982: How exciting! Well, fingers and toes crossed for you that it happens!! 😀

Post # 4
957 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2014

Good luck! I hope your spidey senses are right.

Post # 6
2037 posts
Buzzing bee

I’m almost wondering if his friend is holding the ring or something lol!!!  Maybe it won’t happen at your friends house..but it’s odd that he’s making a big deal about stopping.

I’ve read a lot of proposal stories in the hive and it seems like whenever a man starts going on and on about HAVING or NEEDING to do something, there is a good reason!

Post # 8
2037 posts
Buzzing bee

@Bettyboo1982:  LOL well join the club….ALL of us waiting bees do this lol!!  Hang in there and good luck–seems like you should have a lovely holiday for sure!

Post # 9
1229 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

It could very well happen, but you’re putting a lot of pressure on this trip.  Having a secret walk date creates big expectations- wonderful if those expectations are met, disappointing and devastating if they aren’t. 

Have you communicated a timeline to your SO, and do know what his timeline is? Have you asked him, “If we were to get married, when do you think that would be?”. For most women, proposals come after discussions about marriage.   This isn’t nagging a man to the altar, it’s determining if you can make each other happy, if your visions for kids, career, money, chores, in-laws, and values match up.  

With previous boyfriends, I’ve played the game of trying to decipher his actions and asking friends what I think he meant.  It came from a place of insecurity and doubt, and it drove me nuts.  When you communicate, you have the peace of mind of always knowing where you stand.         



Post # 10
718 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

I am excited to hear what happens, either way you’ll have a great trip!

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