- 5 years ago
So we’ve had several serious talks about our future in the last 3-4 months. We both agree we’re “the one” for each other. About 3 months ago, he said he needs some more time and hes not there just yet to propose. He said just give him some time. I was happy with our talk and totally backed off. The talks weren’t intended to push him for a proposal, just a healthy talk about us and where we are headed. So his responses were certainly enough for me. After our talks I basically implemented the SIUP (just discovered this last week, so it was totally unintentional!!) I didn’t want to pressure and just wanted to enjoy the relationship and knew he would come around.
A word was not spoken. Our relationship has been great! I do wonder from time to time if he’s thought about any of our talk since that day and what hes thinking in his head! I know I do! Mostly in the great moments of our relationship where I think, I want to marry this man! Fast forward to yesterday…
Sent him my xmas/bday list (to help ofcourse lol) and 2 engagements ring were on there 🙂 He made a comment about them just kidding around and I said “oopps must have pinned them to the wrong board”. He then mentioned how I had a trip to cabo on the list and he’s been wanting to go there for awhile. So my response was “so a ring and cabo it is” and we talked a little more about it he ofcourse made a sarcastic funny comment back and realized he was messing with me and I was getting upset (i think he was trying to be sarcastic to deflect) so he said “ok, just relax, just don’t stress me out about it… (insert ring emjoi)” which he never does!!!!!! In the past it was always a “in the future”, “im not there”, “i need more time”. But his response was more along the lines as calm down, youre going to get what you want, just stop stressing me out bc im already planning it!
Were going on our first vacation this weekend together which he randomly planned last month. Which prior to asking he asking me my schedule for the next 6 weeks at the time. We also have a bday vacation in a month and a half. We have the same bday. He also kept making comments and winking about what he was planning to get me for xmas or my bday but would never tell me.
Aldo, over the weekend we were talking about a couple we know who is celebrating their 1 yr anniversary in NYC…the girl thinks hes going to propose and his comment was “why doesn’t he just do it, get it over with and it will make her happy. They don’t have to get married right away, they can have a long engagement.” Which was such a weird comment coming from him. Very out of character. I remember looking at him shocked and agreeing they could just have a long engagement.
Could he be planning something?? What signs do they give off before proposing?!