Post # 1
Hello all waiting bees.
I’m new here and It’s nice to finally be able to talk about my wait in a welcoming community such as this. I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for seven and a half years now, and have been through a lot of adversity in the past year. This is mainly due to his ex-step mother causing stress at the begging of the year due to her and his father going through a divorce. It didn’t help that I had my concerns after my boyfriend pulled the old ‘secret ring box’ gift at christmas routiene that was not a proposal.
But I’m starting to think my wait may well soon be at an end.
I was at his place tonight, and went into his room as he wanted to show me something on the computer. Sitting on his desk was a blue ring that due to the size could only be a ring box, I didn’t mention anything because I didn’t want to ruin any surprise that he might be planning. Just before we left for dinner the box mysteriously disappeared from his table, and now I can’t help but wonder if he’s indeed got something planned for a proposal very soon – or if I am reading a little bit too much into this
I’m just so excited at the possibility that he might pop the question soon.
Post # 3
So you saw a ring box on his desk? That’s a good sign I suppose, but it could be some lovely earrings or a pendant too. Have you been talking about marriage lately? Any other signs?
Post # 4
I tend to lose earrings so I made it clear to everyone to never purchase them as a gift. A pendant is a possibility as he’s not brought anything necklace related for awhile.
We talk about marriage on a regular basis, he’s always saying it will happen soon, and has been very vocal about having a proposal plan every time we discuss it. Two weeks back I was sick with a very mild flu and he went out of the way to get me flowers, and even came over to cook for me one night – both things he’s never done before in my regular encounters with the common cold.
He doesn’t seem nervous at all, but I’ve not seen him much the last week as he’s studying for a work related test later in the year. The only difference I’ve seen is that he’s looking forward to the concert we are going to saturday night, and that’s understandable as we’ve not had a big date night in awhile.
He’s a very vauge and secrative person when it comes to surprises so I’ll doubt I will see much in the way of ‘signs’ before he finally proposes
Post # 5
@Rananteriel: The fact that you guys are at a point where you talk about marriage on a regular basis that is good. My SO is secretive as well… so good luck and keep us posted.
Post # 8
we’ve been talking about marriage for the last three years so it’s pretty obvious what we both want. I know he wants a child, and that he wants to get married and spend a little time as a couple before we have a child which is really sweet :3 I’m excitedly hopeful to find out if I am right or not