- 7 years ago
- Wedding: October 2011
This always makes me so sad and i hate talking about it . It is about the only family member i have in the States . My own sister . Tought she is full of drama , and what not i chose her to be my Maid/Matron of Honor just to spare myself the drama.But God she is making me cry every minutes i think about us . See , she is supposed to me my all , my family and my rock since our parents arent in the states but it doesnt seem to be the case . At first when i told her that my fiance of almost 7 years and a half, the father of my 2 kids decided to tie the knot , she seemed a bit unhappy . Yes , my fiance and i have gone trought issues who which couples doesnt at times argue and disagree . Anyway long story short , she doesnt want to wear the dress that i picked out for the Bridesmaid or Best Man because she is not one “her reasoning” , second: she is not helping with any of the planning and made it very clear to me that her fiance , school and kids are more important to her than my wedding and she can not allow me to stress her out about this whole thing . She came dress shopping with me and was searching for her own dress. She wants to wear that is more dazzling and sparklier than mine and tells me i should be confident enough that no matter what who is wearing , i the bride ould be the center of attention . That is hen i lost it and old her to go to hell. It is been 2 weeks and i havent talked to her .
On the other hand i have 2 amazing Bridesmaid or Best Man that are great. I went to school ith one of them and she is my true friend . The other is someone i am pretty closed to as well . I wanted to give one of them the title of Maid/Matron of Honor but again my crazy sis will go ballistic at me . What am i to do ? i want her to be part of the wedding but she only wants to come for the show and i need more than that .