(Closed) Could use some advice bees!

posted 4 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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840 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013 - The front lawn of our church

@iloverocks:  It’s possible to be friends with someone without being close. That is what I would recommend in this situation. At least until she proves that she is changing. 

Post # 4
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5664 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

I would probably text her and say, please do not text my husband about our friendship. I appreciate your apology, I just don’t have a lot to say at the moment. And just not engage. I’d for sure be like “leave my husband alone” though. That would have pissed me off

 

Post # 5
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@iloverocks:  I’m of the mindset that friendships should,  for the most part,  be uplifting.  I know everyone has ups and downs in life–but if you consistently view the friendship as emotionally draining,  I would be cordial, but cease to try and regain that closeness.  Life is too short/time too precious to spend it exhausting yourself trying to please people who cannot be pleased. 

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