(Closed) couldn’t really stand person

posted 8 years ago in July 2010
Post # 3
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502 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

We did, it was a couple actually. We sent a save the date, but they won’t be getting an invite because they are now getting divoreced. They know no one at the wedding, but us and it just seemed better to leave them out so they didn’t run into one another. So I guess it sort of worked out for us anyways. They kind of invited themselves.

Post # 5
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502 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

Then I wouldnt 🙂 I have a girl that did the same thing. She came with a friend of mine to my birthday celebration last year and keeps asking my maid of honor when I am sending the invites and that she is going to have so much fun. She isn’t going to be invited. Unless you’ve said to her that you would or you talk to her a lot about the wedding to where she would think she was invited. I never ever ever ever talk to this girl. She just thinks because we hung out once that she should be invited. If she brings it up maybe mention you have a space limit so it is only close friends and family?

Post # 6
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10851 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

Fiance has a friend who we hadn’t added to the list that mentioned how much he was looking forward to the wedding, etc. I asked Fiance about it and he was like “Well of course he’s invited”. This guy is nice, but he has very poor taste in women. A couple years ago he brought a girl to a party we threw at our house. She caused a HUGE scene over the course of a couple hours and ended up storming out of the house and slamming the door behind her. No one was fighting with her, she was just angry and ranting at whoever would listen. She was special. Now he’s on again/off again with a stripper who has three kids by three different daddies. He’s a nice guy but not terribly bright and lacks judgement. Now I get to have both him AND his gf at the wedding. Skippy. I’m just going to suck it up. I figure I’ll likely only have to speak to them for max 10 minutes during the evening and I’m just thanking my lucky stars he didn’t stick with the crazy ranting girl 😉

Post # 7
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396 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Yes. It’s one of my FI’s friends from high school. The last wedding we were at (FSIL), this guy got completely drunk, started getting belligerent, etc. etc. And he’s huge – like, 350lbs+, so he’s not that easy to restrain. The only reason we invited him was because he had a big religious conversion and stopped drinking, but apparently that didn’t quite take. We’re not letting him near the bar. 

Post # 9
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

I think you have final say about who you invite. Think it over, and it you still have 2nd thoughts, just dont invite them.

Good Luck.

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