Post # 16
Yogina Katrina : I would decline the shower invitation and not send a gift. Did you give a gift for the actual wedding when it happened? If so, I would not give another one now. If you didn’t give a gift after the real wedding, then I would still give whatever I normally would for the wedding.
Post # 17
Thank you all for your thoughts. I think the real issue here is I am feeling a bit bullied and that is all on me (it’s a button that gets pushed every once in a while.
The couple announced their engagement after a few holidays together then got married to expedite the immigration process. I am genuinely thrilled my neice has found someone. Rather than a show of gifts or cash, the expression of sentiment should be enough.
I think I just answered my question.