- 6 years ago
- Wedding: July 2012
first, mom picks me up to run some wedding errants and on the way she begins to tell me how so and so cna’t make it to my wedding because of the dangers in mexico..(my wedding is in my mom’s hometown of mexico…the state as a whole has experienced none of the problems you hear on the news…
anywayzz..she tells me how so and so it sending a gift and that his wife will be coming but he will not. And i’m like fine, no worries, I realize some people are just cautious. Then she starts to comiserate about how we should have never planned the wedding there because of hte problems, how she’s so worried we have some 20 people flying in from the states and how she’s stressed that people will be in danger…even though, again…there has been no problems there and we would be making sure they arrive at their hotel safley, etc. But she just wouldn t stop..then she went on about how so mnay of my friens have tatoos and are asian and how they will attract attention and I just started getting super angry at this point….as if there’s soemthing I can even do about it now!!!
I was like mom..what do you want me to do? you want me to call it off them? what is it you want m e to say and do right now!!! She just woldn’t stop saying how worried she is. I swear she will stop at nothing to ruin everythign for me.
and now..my Fiance’ is has left for his bachelor party weekend and I’m alone, and have not gotten any calls since he was en route. I did see a pic of him and all his friens on a party bus but that was it. I told him to just have fun and call me when he can but I’m wishing he was here with me righ tnow.
sorry for the vent.