(Closed) Couple's Bachelor/Bachelorette Party? Is there such a thing?

posted 6 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
530 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2012 - Hacienda los Agaves

I don’t know if it’s a cultural thing somewhere but I’ve sure heard of this. If the couple have the same friends and they’re all used to party together why not? Altough most of the time they start the night apart and then get together somewhere, just so the girls and guys can have some alone time.

Personally I think it sounds fun, maybe cause I know Fiance and his friends are not party animals and we all get along so even if they’re on their own I won’t be worrying.

It’s a matter of how good the bride’s relationship is with the groom’s friends and viceversa.

Post # 4
509 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@Helloemi:  Before we even got engaged we had been thinking about having a co-ed bach party. We just aren’t sure what we want to do yet. Probably something laid back like a bbq and a bonfire. Fiance and I aren’t huge partiers nor drinkers so bar hopping is out of the question for us (not to mention that our best man is underage).

Post # 5
11246 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

My friends did this, they called it a ‘Hag’ party cross between hen and stag, I’d have perhaps gone with the hybrid ‘Sten’. It didn’t feel like that sort of party though, more like an engagement party.

Post # 6
2143 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

We’re having one, it doesn’t really matter if it’s a “thing” or not, do whatever you like best 🙂 Most of our friends are mutual and mixed genders so it makes a lot more sense to do it this way

Post # 8
3773 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 1999

We had a wedding party party. The guys did a brewery tour while we did the girl stuff and then we met up and grilled out. We had a stretch ecalade come pick us up and went to a comedy club and some bars. It was really fun and nice that everyone got to hang out before the wedding. The night got pretty wild so the reception was like an epic reunion for all of us.

Post # 10
853 posts
Busy bee

A stag-and-doe!

Post # 11
853 posts
Busy bee

Or Jack and Jill

Post # 13
1319 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

Darling Husband and I wanted to do one. Our bridal party wouldn’t let us. We’re really laid back, so we wanted to do something chill and fun, and our friends and family kept saying, “You have the rest of your lives to hang out together, you don’t get to for this…”  My girls, especially, wanted to do something exciting and big. I didn’t really want a bachelorette if it wasn’t gonna be a joint party, so we just ended up going to dinner. Haha.

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