(Closed) Couples Massage

posted 8 years ago in Wellness
Post # 3
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1585 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

FH an I did that once… and we didn’t like it.  You are just both getting massages in the same room… It didn’t make any difference if we were in the same room or in different rooms.

Whenever we get massages now we get them separately.

Post # 4
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1740 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

we did it once but it wasnt his thing… i dont hink we will do it again because he didnt like it… he preffer me giving him the massage… but this is my experience… i know other couples who love it

Post # 5
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6572 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2010

my fi surprised me with one today! we both loved it! yes, it was just us getting a massage seperately, in the same room, but good lord we both needed a massage with the wedding two weeks away! so it was nice to get one, and to know that he was right there, having a nice relaxing time too. so i’m all for it!

Post # 6
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42 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: March 2010

We have gotten couples massages twice and think it’s not that great.  Kind of awkward actually, bc I feel like your masseuse doesn’t want to ask you questions “Is this the right pressure? How’s your temperature?” etc. 

Massages, in general, super thumbs up.  (Make sure to let them know your pressure preference, etc. and you’ll feel great for literally days!)  Couples, meh.  We’ll do it separately from now on.

Post # 7
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1230 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

We’ve gotten a couples massage before and they’re just ok. Personally, I love massages and I get them regularly (I have lots of problems/pain in my neck/shoulder area) but you definitely have to let the masseuse know what type of pressure you like. Fiance has only gotten the one massage and I keep telling him he should go in again but he wants to do another couples massage and I don’t really think I want to do that again.

Post # 9
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1148 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

I prefer to have Fiance do it and I reciprocate of course, but there’s only one place I’d even consider getting a massage done professionally and that’s the resort downtown, but I think for the price I’d rather just have a good dinner for the two of us.

Post # 10
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5263 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2012

I’m scared to get one – I’m afraid I won’t want to speak up and sound like a wuss! 

R has gotten them before, and says they’re okay but doesn’t love them. I really prefer when he gives me massages because I have no problem saying higher, lower, more pressure, etc. Plus, it’s nice. 🙂 

Post # 11
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1763 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

My Fiance and I give each other massages all the time, but it is nothing like a professional massage. We did a couples one once and it was nice. In the same room gettting a massage at the same time. We talked a little bit, but for the most part just enjoyed. I LOVE the warm blankets you lie under, I wish I had one at home. I would sleep naked under them all the time (ok, not really,but I would think about it)

Post # 12
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713 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2010

I’ve gone for massages many times and made him do it with me last year at a resort in mexico… he absolutely fell in love with it and we went for 2 more that week!! my mom got us gift certificates to go for xmas this year and we did separate things at the spa… he LOVES the hot stone therapy massages.. (i do too but i sometimes like to switch it up with something with a little more pressure…)

Post # 13
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828 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2010

We’ve done it before and while the massage itself was lovely, I don’t feel like it was a couples’ romantic bonding experience or anything, since we were both facedown on separate tables. 

Post # 14
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6009 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2009

I LOVE getting couples’ massages with my husband.  First of all, professional massages in general are pure heaven.  Second of all, if you go to a nice place, they will often give you some alone time to relax together before and after the massages.  There is a resort in our town we’ve gone to a few times, and their massage rooms have private balconies, so we can sit together before and after and just enjoy the relaxation.  It is really awesome.  🙂 

Post # 15
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2408 posts
Buzzing bee

i haven’t gotten a couple’s massage but i love the regular massages! i had the same hang up about a stranger rubbing me down but honestly, i didn’t even care once the massuse started because it just felt great. i figure since she’s a pro, there hasn’t been something she hasn’t seen yet.

plus, you don’t have to worry about the other person getting tired of massaging you. lol.

i asked my guy if he’d ever get one but he says he’d just prefer one from me.

Post # 16
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1813 posts
Buzzing bee

we’ve done it 2x (plus one time where we just had apptmts @ the same time)  I liked having it in the same room, but it’s not that much better!

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