Post # 1
My Fiance and I are having a couples shower. All of the BMs and groomsmen who are in town will be chipping in for the cost of the shower. Do you have any suggestions for host and hostess gifts? Since they are all chipping in, we should get them all gifts right? What about for my Maid/Matron of Honor (who is actually hosting it at her house) — but another Bridesmaid or Best Man is doing all of the planning and coordinating? Do you have any suggestions for gifts? Thanks, I am feeling a bit clueless about all of this!!
Post # 3
I was just kinda thinking the same thing. We too are doin his/hers shower. Just because our wedding is very out of town, and cant invite everyone. So we are doing the his and hers thing I really dont want favors but should we? I know if its just like 10-20 girls and more intimate I should but with more people and guys going too not sure how that is.
Anyone know whats the best way about this?
Post # 4
@ Formerlybuttons: what if you gave them a wine bottle? Then you could you find one that is fairly inexpensive and give them to the ones pitching in.
@Mado: you are asking about favors, right? I don’t think you give favors at a couples shower. It would be us to the host/hostess to decide what favors are given.