Court House Wedding 4 months before planned wedding

posted 4 months ago in Ceremony
Post # 31
Member
1973 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2017

jellybellynelly :  I 100% believe this to be true. I can’t see a point in NOT calling it what it is expect thinking guests will give less.

Also… “Actually, my Darling Husband and I got married legally and we are still having our actual wedding in February. We aren’t really telling anyone about it, and so far it has turned out just fine. ” This PP is actually already married and she is actually lying to her guests. It’s actually turing out just fine because no one actually knows the truth. This bee is actually in pretty hot water to me because she actually should have said something sooner. Now she’s running the risk of people actually being upset… actually. 

Post # 32
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253 posts
Helper bee

volvo321 :  

But why would anyone ask? If I’m invited to a wedding, I assume I’m going to see the couple get married!

Post # 34
Member
1973 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2017

volvo321 :  *whispers* but it’s not… because you are already married 🤫🤫 

Post # 35
Member
370 posts
Helper bee

somathemagical :  keep thinking whatever makes you happy 🙂 honestly, we did what was best for us and don’t really need approval or care what other’s think. 

Post # 36
Member
1973 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2017

volvo321 :  I’m not saying getting MARRIED before the reception is wrong. I have two friends who did it. It’s best for you.

But it is just plainly not true that your guests will witness your marriage. It is not a wedding. You and Darling Husband are wearing your bands. I saw you post his and yours already on your hands. What are you going to do? Have him take it off again and pretend it’s the first time you are exchanging them? You are kidding yourself. 

For you to try and deceive others about when your marriage is has a stink of deceit for no reason. If you don’t think they’d mind just tell them. People don’t care about it but your lying to them but pretending this is your wedding. It’s not.  

Why don’t you want to tell them?

ETA: you actually DO care what others think because you are lying to them about already being married

Post # 37
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5776 posts
Bee Keeper

volvo321 :  You cannot get married again unless you get divorced. So no, people will NOT be seeing you get married. They will see you re-enact a wedding and lie to them about it though. 

Post # 38
Member
370 posts
Helper bee

somathemagical :  I’m not deceiving anyone. But you can think what you want. I should correct myself, I don’t care what anyone on here thinks that is going to be judgmental. I’ve seen so many people on here tearing down other bees and it really is sad. I don’t care that you don’t agree with what we did. I know many people don’t, and that’s perfectly fine. I respect your opinion. We just did our own thing it worked for us. What worked for us may not work for others. 

 

Have a great evening ❤️

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