Post # 1
Guys, am I crazy for thinking this is bananas?
I am getting married in September. RSVP’s are just starting to roll in. I get one from my cousin (we were very close when I lived in NJ, now that I’m an hour or so away we don’t see each other too much but I’ve been texting her throughout the wedding planning process about details and what not). Anyway, her RSVP is a decline. I was surprised because I attended her wedding and we had always talked about how excited we were to getmarried one day.
The following text conversation ensued…
She is referring to the fact that 3 years ago she got married on a beach in September. I am also getting married on a beach (in a completely different city) in September.
Is it me, or is this crazy? I don’t know how or if I even should dignify this with a reply. I just can’t believe it.
What do you think bees?
Post # 2
Sounds like you are dodging a bullet with her not there anyway
Post # 3
Weddings bring out the best and worst in people. She needs to get over herself. I don’t think she had much grace to start if she thinks that’s an acceptable message to send at all.
Post # 4
She’s jelly… that’s all there is to it. Maybe she’s expecting that people will compare your two weddings and that you’ll win those comparisons? I don’t know. I’m laughing pretty hard over here though.
Post # 5
Wow how petty. I agree, sounds like you dodged a bullet.
Post # 7
so you are not allowed to get married in the month of September or on a beach? who made her owner of those? it’s really pathetic on her part. She should really grow up. Sounds like she is jealous. I wouldn’t even respond to her and move on. also I’d be removing her from any social networks if she asks why say you had to bow out. seriously pathetic.
Post # 8
She doesn’t really sound like a nice person. Sounds like it’s time to just let the relationship fade. I wouldn’t even bother responding.
Post # 9
What’s wrong with you? Why would you get married on a beach in the same month that your cousin did?! Don’t you know she called dibs on that particular combination and now no one else can ever have a September beach wedding on any continent?!
Seems like she was absent the day God was dishing out grace and patience. She’s something else.
Post # 10
I would send her a link to this thread 😉
Post # 11
What did you say back to that? I feel like my response would literally be “lolk.”
Post # 12
She is ridiculous. The End.
Post # 13
She’s being super petty. Brush it off and enjoy your wedding!
Post # 14
Wtf did I just read? Seriously? She’s a narcissist…. or crazy.. or idk… this is just… ok and the petty award goes to her! You know what my reply would be? “I see… no need for gifts, thanks.”
Post # 15
Strange. I’m also having a beach wedding and if a friend or family member had a beach wedding after, I think I’d be happy and excited to pass on advice.