(Closed) Cousin declined wedding invite for this reason… WTF?!? (poll)

posted 4 years ago in Family
  • poll:

    That shit cray.

    It's understandable

    Uh...what?

  • Post # 46
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    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: August 2013 - Rocky Mountains USA

    That is the most ludicrous thing I’ve read in a long long long time! WHAT. A. PSYCHO.

    Post # 47
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    Helper bee

    Umm, your wedding sounds rad!

    Your cousin is straight up cray! I hope some of your family members call her on it. What a child!

    Post # 48
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    Buzzing bee

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    twistaway :  I was just about to ask you about your theme.

    Yours sounds so different from hers. I wonder what she’ll think about her decision after the wedding…

    Post # 49
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    Sugar bee

    Loony tunes! Both her reasoning and how she explained it.

    Post # 50
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    Bumble bee

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    twistaway :  EW. That is so petty.   Is she the first to ever have a beach wedding? 

     

    ETA: I had family member RSVP no for a bullshit reason and try as hard as I may, I’m so offended. It’s a blessing in disguise that your cousin will be absent with her SOUR GRAPES.

    Post # 51
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    Sugar bee

    I really feel like we need to know how you responded to this insanity. Did it include the words “grow the fuck up”?

    Post # 52
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    Newbee

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    Cheekie0077 :  I think we’re on the same page. In a nutshell, the cousin is in the wrong.

    Post # 53
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: April 2017

    It seems like she drank all the ocean water at her wedding cause she is salty as fuq! 

    GIRL, SWERVE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

     

    Post # 54
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    Wow. Not only is her reasoning for being upset pretty damn hard to understand, but her whole message and the way it’s worded comes across as incredibly rude and unpleasant to me. If she was just legit upset about the similarities (which I personally think is ridiculous, but that’s a different issue altogether) then I’m not sure why she felt the need to put the comment about a wedding gift without the cost of a hotel in – that was purely designed to tell you how little you and your wedding mean to her. What a b****. 

    Post # 55
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: February 2009

    While I can’t say I get it, or would feel that way, she was honest.  And it is clearly bugging her.  So it is good that she said it so you can both move forward.  And it is good that her crappy feelings will not be present on your day.

    Post # 56
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    Bumble bee

    One less plate you have to pay for…  Two if she had a +1.

    Post # 58
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    No one has to give a reason they are not attending.  You were rude to push her.  

    Post # 59
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    Buzzing Beekeeper

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    juanita.kelly.9 :  Yeah, sooooooo rude to ask her cousin if everything is okay with her. 

    Post # 60
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    2121 posts
    Buzzing bee

    I’m about to put down a total ban on all church weddings during June. Can’t have that. 

    Seriously, “that shit cray” is the best poll option ever.

    “I’m sorry you feel that way, but I appreciate your honesty” I think would be my only reply. You don’t need to justify your wedding or choices to her. 

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