(Closed) Cousin declined wedding invite for this reason… WTF?!? (poll)

posted 4 years ago in Family
  • poll:

    That shit cray.

    It's understandable

    Uh...what?

  • Post # 91
    Member
    315 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: June 2018

    “Show here crazy ass this thread” should be a poll option. 😂 What a nut! Lol

    Post # 92
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    1160 posts
    Bumble bee

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    twistaway :  sounds ridiculous. The only thing I can think of that makes it in any way less strange is if she is having marital problems and (either consciously or unconsciously) this is affecting how she feels about attending a wedding in a similar venue close to her own anniversary date. I don’t think it makes it a good reason to not attend but it’s the only possibility I could see that wasn’t just that she’s being ridiculous.

    Post # 93
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    778 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: February 2015

    I think it’s ridiculous and petty of the cousin, however I think she did the right thing to decline. Otherwise we would’ve had a post after the wedding about how her cousin ruined her wedding with her pathetic and childish behaviour.

    Post # 94
    Member
    2127 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: May 2019

    She’s a baby. Be happy she’s not coming. You’ll have a wonderful wedding without her.

    Post # 95
    Hostess
    9084 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: Dorset, UK

    Wow…. just wow…. who needs enemies right?!?!!

    Post # 96
    Member
    1183 posts
    Bumble bee

    Haha! What a crazy lady! 

    Id show it your your mum, her mum etc and make it very clear that you are a bit unsettled by it but accept her decision. 

    Some people are just attention seeking drama queens. 

    Post # 97
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    1586 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2017

    Lol, reading her text it sounded like you’d booked your wedding ten minutes after hers at a location six hours away, after you had known her date for two months. She does not own the beach or the month of September and there were probably thousands of women getting married on beaches on the exact same DAY as her.

    Post # 98
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    2121 posts
    Buzzing bee

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    aussiemum1248 :  This this this! And don’t send her a link to this thread, tell your mum, her mum, etc etc. 

    Post # 99
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    13905 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    Very strange.  But honestly, just try to let it go.  She probably has other things going on that are upsetting her and she’s taking out anger/frustration on you.

    Post # 100
    Member
    587 posts
    Busy bee

    Having a beach wedding is so unique, no one else in the family could ever think of having it.

    Post # 101
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    299 posts
    Helper bee

     I’m sorry but i do not agree with taking the high road and letting it go.

    She could have been graceful and took the high road by saying no I wont be able to make it so sorry wish you the best etc. Instead she decided to throw shade at you and insinuate that you were copying her like she invented the september beach wedding.

    I wouldn’t lose sleep over it, but she felt the need to make that comment, and it’s someone you considered close at some point. Say what you feel you need to say then just dismiss her self centered ass

    Post # 102
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    1701 posts
    Bumble bee

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    twistaway : 

    She sounds like an asshole…I am sorry!! 

    I don’t understand this attitude…EVER…even if you 100% copied EVERYTHING about her wedding down to the underwear you wore, I would STILL think she is being ridiculous!!

    I am so sorry! 🙁

    Post # 103
    Member
    720 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2019

    “Oh my god, you’re wearing a white dress for your wedding? I wore a white dress for my wedding. You’re such a copy cat! yell

    Post # 104
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    426 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: May 2017 - The Summit Country Day School Chapel/The Hilton Netherland Plaza Hall of Mirrors

    Wtf?!? That’s like me saying no one in my family can get married in a church in May. 

    Post # 105
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    1701 posts
    Bumble bee

    I want to know who the 16 “yeah, it’s reasonable” people are! LOL

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