- 7 years ago
- Wedding: August 2011
I just had my bridal shower, and for the first time my extended family met my fiance’s family and friends. I have a cousin who is 15 years older than me that is a drama queen and always has to be the center of attention. This cousin lives 10 minutes from my fiance and his family and friends. At the shower, she made friends with his sister and friends and proceeded to tell me that she and my fiance’s sister are going to take a class together and I’m not invited. She also said in front of everyone that I should have invited her to all the social things that these people and I have done all these years because she could have had a new social circle. First of all, I don’t like her because she always tries to embarrass me in front of everyone and says veils insults to me. We are not close at all, and I feel like she is trying to insert herself into my life where she is not wanted. I feel she overstepped the line by buddying up to my future sister-in-law and making plans with her. Am I crazy? I think that is inappropriate. And then to throw it in my face and say I’m not invited? I feel like if she becomes friends with all these people, she will be invited to all the stuff we do and she’ll always be in my face! She and my fiance’s family and friends are also staying at the same hotel. She told my mom that they will all be partying, so she better remember to call them or they might forget to go to the wedding. I can’t believe her! It’s like she’s going to be hosting her own private party or something and it’s supposed to be my wedding! I am so upset about this 🙁 Any advice?