(Closed) Cousin Wants To Get Married In My Church….

posted 7 years ago in Family
Post # 16
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2864 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

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Mrslovebug: did you even read the OP? Her cousin doesn’t want to pay the fee OR join of the church, of which she must do one to be married at the church.

the OP is being exceptionally patient and graceful with her cousin. 

Post # 17
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2013 - UK

You know what? Just change the subject every time she brings it up. This is completely not your problem, and it’s really unfair of her to make it your problem. What does she expect? That you will do all the paperwork for her? What about the premarital counselling? Does she expect that you will do that on her behalf as well etc etc? I’m sure you get my point.

At the end of the day, she will have to step up herself. She’s being a pest. If she doesn’t want to rejoin, she will have to pay. End of!

Post # 18
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2014

I don’t see why it’s a big deal for you? If those are the requirements of the church, she either has to pay or do this ceremony thing. They’ll tell her, so you don’t have to. 

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