(Closed) Cousin/BM is being SO ridiculous and uncooperative!

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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214 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2010

You know what you need to do? Smack her!

 

Man I am so mad for you. I had issues w/ dressing my Maid/Matron of Honor. I told her to pick any dress and she found fault with everything. Finally she picked one. Wooo.. it is pretty nice too! So hopefully your cousin sucked it up and bought the dress.

Post # 4
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7152 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2010

WOW…..uncooperative BMs totally SUCK!!

When is her dress due to come in? I say wait until it comes, ask to see it, and if it’s not what you asked her to order then she’s out.

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2010

does she need to be in the wedding? seriously, she needs to grow up and either jump on board or get off! you’ll have enough to worry about, she needs not to be one of those things!  I’d tell her “youre all set”

 

 

Post # 6
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

If she can’t follow simple instructions, she can’t be in the wedding!

That is so strange. I’d be flipping out if one of my BMs did that. Well, if you told her she can’t stand in it, at least you wouldn’t have uneven numbers now that your groomsman can’t make it.

Who just buys their own dress and wears that? I’d send her a relatively threatening message about that. Seriously. 

Post # 7
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1135 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2009

I really thought these things only happened on TV.  I say she’s out now–who behaves like that??  I’m sure you have family obligations that prevent you from being as rash as I’m recommending, but really.  That kind of behavior needs to be punished!  She’s acting like a petulant four year old–so maybe you can tell her she gets to be the flower girl?  Their dresses really don’t have to match anyway.  😉

Post # 9
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

Do you think her sister could find out the info? The fact that she’s not responsive AND the fact that the mom is being unclear screams out to me that she has something to hide.

Post # 10
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2010

I agree about her havign something to hide or just wants to cause you grief. I don’t see a problem with only having her sister in the wedding. She can sit herself in the audience in her dress that she picked out……then have to answer to everyone why she’s not up there!

Post # 12
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838 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Shes just being stubborn shes still young and may lack the mind to think its about you and not her. It cant be a guessing game on which dress she picked maybe you should ask her in an email/VM if shes not answering your calls to pls send you the link of what the dress looks like if not your going to have to replace her just be polite about it and in your own words. Good luck with that! : /

Post # 13
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14186 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

Maybe it’s a white dress Yell

Post # 14
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1684 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: February 2010

The dresses & Bridesmaids are all registered for your wedding so your name’s attached right? Can you call DB and ask them what she bought?

Post # 16
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84 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: January 2010

If she got in from David’s and gave your name you can find out what dress she ordered. I also had David’s add my e-mail to the orders for the girls – so when their dresses come in – I get an e-mail alert too!

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