(Closed) Cousins, cousins, too many cousins!

posted 7 years ago in Family
Post # 3
8738 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

@hisgoosiegirl: Good you are getting all this out here and not in real life or to her because it does sound VERY petty.


Look at the bright side:

1) Your wedding is first. Anything she does similar will look like a copy of  you (plus with another wedding in between no one except you and maybe Maid/Matron of Honor will realize the colors are the same)

2) Lots of people register at the same place, but you are going first maybe gifts will be more generous

3) Go to the wedding and grin and bear it. Act happy for them, congratulate them, but you don’t have to go overboard. No need to introduce stress with the in-laws.

Stop focusing so much on her, and focus on how happy you and your Fiance are. There’s no reason to wish her ill will (and it’s not like she scheduled her wedding the day before yours).

Just focus on all the weddings/happy times to come and be happy with the fact that you get to go first and people will be fresh for yours (and most likely weddinged-out by hers).

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