(Closed) Coworkers in a big office

posted 8 years ago in Etiquette
  • poll: I would...
    invite 2 or 3 of them : (2 votes)
    15 %
    not invite anyone for anything : (9 votes)
    69 %
    invite them over for a casual get together after the wedding : (1 votes)
    8 %
    invite them to the Jack and Jill : (1 votes)
    8 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    2249 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: March 2018

    I am in a simmilar situation in terms of size of co worker group and I invited no one. I asked a co worker who trained me if people would be offended and she said no, that other people who worked here before me got married and didn’t invite any of the group. is there one person you could ask to guage if any of them are expecting invitations?

    Post # 4
    Member
    1482 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2010

    I would just not invite anyone.  You said that you’re close on your numbers, and it doesn’t sound like your co-workers are your close friends since you rarely hang out outside of work.  I don’t think people would be offended if you didn’t invite anyone.

    Post # 5
    Member
    2532 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: August 2010

    I would say if you hung out with them more then it would be good for you to invite the 2-3 that youve hung out with outside of work….but since you said only a handful of times in the past 3 years then dont worry about it. Also, I dont think you should invite people to your shower and then not to the wedding. It may have worked for some people in the past, but just as a rule of thumb its best etiquette not to do so.

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