(Closed) crap….

posted 7 years ago in Babies
Post # 3
Hostess
18644 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

Well I guess congratulations are in order!  I don’t really have much advice but I don’t think there is really much you can do to prevent a miscarriage.  And as for the labor stuff, you have some time to get used to that!

Post # 4
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3257 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Have you told your fiance or husband yet about the news? 

Congratulations. That may not be what you want to hear right now, but everything is going to be okay. Think of the baby and not of the labor! 🙂

Post # 5
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Honey, trust me you are not alone.  When I found out I was pregnant I locked myself in the bathroom crying for 20 minutes. This was in my first marriage. They say to wait through the first trimester to really start telling everyone because of the risk of miscarriage.  But it is a happy thing! I can;t really say past that because I did loose mine but I lost it due to an abusive non ex-husband.

You mind will race through thoughts of all kinds but then you will start to get used to it and it will all fall into place.

Post # 6
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5496 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2010

Congrats! It sounds like you are in shock and a tad overwelmed. I can only imagine since you weren’t planning on this. It’ll take some time to adjust to the idea, so give yourself time to let it sink in. Have you told your fiance, yet?

I know this wasn’t planned and you are so surprised right now, but hopefully in a few days or weeks you’ll become happier about it and get excited about having a baby! It’s totally normal to feel how you do right now, though. 🙂

Post # 7
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642 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

Congratulations! Is your wedding date correct? Just under two weeks away! Double congrqtulations! Relax and enjoy everything right now. I am sure it can all be very overwhelming. I would wait to get through the first 3 months before telling people.

Post # 9
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538 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

Congratulations!  You can tell from my user name that I too am scared of a loss and therefore not telling anyone until about 12 weeks (currently about 10 weeks).  

Take your time to share this with your husband and share when you feel comfortable.  

Post # 10
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3587 posts
Sugar bee

Congrats!

I understand being afraid of loss, but I’d say at least tell your parents and a close sibling. Then, if something God forbid, does happen, you will have those who love you most to support you. I know how scary it is to think about losing your baby. ((((rlsh86))))

Post # 11
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681 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2009

congrats! i know you’re overwhelmed and scared, but it sounds like those feelings will probably subside once you get used to the idea 🙂 and remember…some women do miscarry, but MOST do not. just try to relax, and i think telling one or two people for support through the first few weeks/months might be a good idea!

Post # 12
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2538 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

Congrats! And I was scared to give birth too. In fact, I cried about that, not the pregnancy. I read and read and read so that I knew more about what to expect when I gave birth. After reading, I decided that the Bradley Meathod was the best for my husband and I. Once you read, you’ll find what’s best for you and your husband. As for miscarriage, yes, it’s scary, but as previous people said, I would tell your husband and a close friend who can keep a secret.

Post # 14
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5496 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2010

When was your period due? Have you had any symptoms? Did you mention to the person that you had four positive urine tests to see what he/she said?

Post # 16
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5496 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2010

@rlsh86: Is your period every late? Can you take another urine test at home since it has been over a day? I just don’t know what to think. I’ve always heard false positives are extremely rare, too. Yes, talk to your doctor and see what she has to say. Good luck!

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