posted 6 years ago in Family
Post # 3
790 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

This is one of those situations where I can see both sides. I can see why your mom would want to have her “fiancé” (whether they actually get married or not, it sounds like she believes that they will) in her daughter’s wedding pics. And I can see how you don’t want someone you may have no contact with in the future in your forever pics. The obvious solution would be to compromise and allow him to be in a couple of the formal pics, and not in others. Would that be possible? Unless your mom and her “fiancé” are really unreasonable I would think they’d understand that you want some formal family pics with official and immediate family members only. But you could include him in a couple to appease your mom and then, if they do end up happily ever after married, it will be nice to have those pics. And if not you can just not print those pics or stick them in the back of a drawer somewhere!

Post # 4
2416 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I mean, can’t you do one with your mom and dad and then another with your mom’s Fiance to make you both happy? Just tell the photographer to take one more photo!

Post # 6
2067 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Yes, I agree with pp.  You can just do a pic with your dad and mom and a pic with B and your mom 🙂 Easy!

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