- Mrs. Dodson to Be
- 7 years ago
- Wedding: November 2010
Ok bee’s time to vent. I rarely get on here but recently I did and I’m kinda loving it! So here’s our story:
I’ve been married for a month yesterday (SO EXCITED!) and my life just wouldn’t be the same without my husband. We’ve been together for a little over three years and have lived with each other for about two. My husband honestly treats me like a queen and everything’s so great except for one big thing, his crazy ex. He has children by her so the situation is horrible. I’ve dealt with her drama since DAY ONE! They were broken up for about a year when I started dating him. He and I went to the same high school and had classes together so we’ve know each other for years before this. They broke up with a mutual understanding that it just wasn’t working out but as soon as I popped into the picture her jealousy and craziness came out. She immediately found out who I was by goggling me to find out my last name and myspace stalking me (later she did the same on facebook). When I received a message from her I knew she was nuts. How did she find out my last name and manage to find me on myspace. She then went on to tell intimate details of things that went on between them and confessed her “pitty” for me. She always told me how horrible he was and how I’ll see one day. It’s been over three years and he’s far from horrible. I later on realized that she had then realized how great he was and was jealous of him being with me. So over the years the drama didn’t stop. She would continuously write me (finding out my email addresses) and claim she didn’t have feelings for him when four years after them not being together she still feels the need to talk about him and I saying he doesn’t take care of his responsibilities and how he doesn’t have a house blah blah blah. One he pays child support that comes out automatically without notice, two we’ve been living together in our condo and three he takes great care of me and the kids. She’s the one on welfare and living in someone’s basement for free. She holds him back from seeing his kids. She won’t allow him to go and if he does she’ll tell him I can’t be there. Wow. I’m his wife and when we do get them they tell me all the things she says about me to make them hate me. She just sickens me. It used to affect our relationship but not anymore. So I guess I’m asking what have you fellow bee’s done to get through a situation like this? How would you handle her?