(Closed) Crazy EX MB behavior strikes again

posted 10 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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100 posts
Blushing bee

She’s making your life a living hell! Are you sure you cannot uninvite her? I feel like that is the only solution! You shouldn’t even have to see her on your big day!

Post # 5
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378 posts
Helper bee

Yes!! Make her eat his food too! THAT will help her "diet"

Post # 6
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2765 posts
Sugar bee

Just take the high road.  She’s trying to create drama – either through her food or through her boyfriend – to get back at you.

Post # 7
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: August 2008

Take a deep breath. Ignore her.  Pay for the food either way.  Consider the $$ is the cost of your sanity!

Post # 8
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: July 2018 - Rainforest wedding, beachfront restaurant reception

I think Mr Bee is right. Her "jokes" are her way of stressing you out with a smile on her face. You will take away her control over you if you just let her special requests or, really, any attempt to engage you, roll off your back. You have to many legitimate things to worry about as you prepare for your wedding. Try not to give her another thought.

Post # 9
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158 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: March 2009

Do you even want to maintain a friendship with this person anymore? I only ask because if you don’t, I would honestly uninvite her at this point. But to do that you would have to be willing to break all ties with her. If that’s not something you want to do or can do because of the situation, then ditto mrbee and gingerbread. You just need to take the high road and stop worrying about her.

Post # 10
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2008

the food thing I could understand if she was lactose intolerant.  but this is just strange.  Just don’t count him for food.  and tell her.  if he is there, he can eat appetizers, or you can just tell the kitchen that you got an unexpected guest.  they make more food than they need anyway.  and until then, ignore her from now on!  shes obnoxious.

Post # 12
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2008

Ugh.  She’s a piece of work, isn’t she?  If her boyfriend can only attend part of the evening, and will have to leave, he should RSVP as "wedding only."  We have several friends who are actually leaving for Europe on a late flight the night of our wedding who did that – they will attend the wedding and perhaps have a cocktail afterwards, but have to leave for the airport around the time that dinner is served.  It’s really not possible that he doesn’t know what time he has to leave – if he’s working that night they expect him there at a specific time.  If he’s going to have to leave before the dinner hour is over, then he shouldn’t get dinner (what, are they next going to ask you to pack his "to go"?)

Post # 13
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2008

You are allowing this girl to cause you way too much stress.  You can’t change her so either uninvite her or just let it alllll go.  Whatever she does, don’t worry about it. Concentrate on all the great people who are coming and the fact that you are getting married!!

Post # 14
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2008

I say you ignore her too.  It sounds like you’re letting her stress you out way too much.  Smile, pay for his dinner, and focus on something better.

Post # 16
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Newbee
  • Wedding: November 2018

 

 

Just try to ignore her. Obviously she is just a real cranky/weird person or she is jealous of your happiness and festivities.  

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