Post # 17
I had a crazy guy I went on 2 dates with the summer before I met my husband. He was beyond crazy, he actually texted me after our 2nd date, saying he wanted to “tie you up in the back seat of my car and f*** all your holes.” Needless to say I didn’t go on any more dates with that lunatic. He kept trying for about a month after, texting me and calling, asking to hang out and saying he missed me. Eventually he just gave up.
Then a couple of weeks ago I’m in bed with my hubby and he texts me saying hi and he was wondering how I was doing. It had been about 3 years since I talked to this wierdo. So I just texted him back that I’m awesome and just got married. He said he was happy for me and asked if we had any kids yet and so on and that was it. The next day my hubby took my phone while I was cooking and texted him “No but he wants to f*** all my holes.” So he texts back “I’m glad he enjoys all your holes lol I don’t blame him.” It was pretty hilarious.
Post # 18
Yeah it was pretty gross. Now that the ick has worn off, I just feel kind of sad for him. I mean, that’s pretty pathetic to still be wanting someone a year later… so much so that you would actually text them. And here I am, just moved into a townhouse with the love of my life. I’m so happy I kind of just want everyone to be this happy…. even gross asshole slappers.
Post # 19
I’ve been with my Fiance for over 6 years now. I STILL get facebook messages & texts from an ex. It’s typically a “Your Fiance is so lucky, I wish I still had a chance, blah blah blah”. Depending on the message, I may ignore it, or I may respond with something snarky.
But occasionally if he messages me and it’s late and he’s been drinking – it’s usually about some gross sexual act and I ignore it. He apologizes and I go about six months without hearing from him.
Some guys are just stupid.
Post # 20
DO NOT TEXT HIM BACK. It will only lead to more texting and then you’ll never get rid of him. Been there; done that.
Post # 21
@MexiPino: After breaking up with my long term boyfriend, I rebounded with a man I worked with who was 9 years older than me. I was 19 or 20. We dated for 9 months. He ended up being the most physically/emotionally abusive and manipulative person I have ever met in my life. After my mom’s pleading and after a really bad physical abuse incident happened, I finally ‘woke up’ and broke it off with him. He went insane and blew up my phone with the most disgusting, misogynistic, cruel, perverted text messages. I had to block his number. And of course, since we worked together (he was a very high level engineer), it just made things so awkward. He actually started harrassing me at work through my personal emails and work IM chats. It got so bad I had to tell my higher ups which caused my higher up to speak to HIS higher up. How embarrassing, right? To have my boss at a very well-known/prestigious company know about my dirty laundry? They told him to leave me alone and to stop harrassing me. They even moved my cube to a different department.
It was okay for a few weeks or maybe a couple months although I was continously strategizing my lunches and my coffee breaks so I would NOT run into him. I would pray and cross my fingers everytime. Finally, one morning he sent me an email making the grossest and most sexual remark about my Facebook profile picture which I don’t even know how he saw since I blocked him from Facebook. I told my higher up and BOOM, that day he got fired for sexual harrassment. This very successful, high level engineer got fired in a matter of minutes after he sent me that message.
To this day, I’m really proud of this company that didn’t stand for any harrassment and was not afraid to fire psychotic bullies…even if they were great ’employees’.
BASICALLY CRAZY EXES ARE THE WORST
Post # 22
OMG so creepy!!!
I wouldn’t put it past him to then post said naked pictures. But otherwise, fantastic idea!
LOL I love it.
Oh man. That is amazing. If he texts again I might say that even though I’m not pregnant.
EWWWWW…. it’s always the creepy ones that keep coming back!
Post # 23
Woah! That is a horrible experience but I’m so glad your company took it so seriously! That is really awesome!
Yeah… it’s fun to think about what snarky remarks I COULD send, but in reality I think not responding at all is the best way to go. I didn’t respond to his “Merry Christmas” text, but maybe this was the last one. We’ll see. I know he still follows me on twitter, but I don’t think he’s on that often, so I’m not sure if he knows I’m in a relationship or not. But I’m totally that annoying girl posting about how much she loves her boyfriend all the time, so if he does see it, he should know. 😛
Post # 24
Totally snort-laughed in the office at that one!
Post # 25
I had given a guy an ultimatum to either move forward genuinely or we’d leave it alone for good (after a hundred years of off and on and off). I told him the worst thing he could do was leave me hanging and not let me know what he’d decided to do. So of course that’s what he did…I took my answer from that. I was living happily ever after and this fool had the balls to text me on Thanksgiving of last year “Happy Thanksgiving Kay, be good.” The old me, all vested in half-love, would have either taken this as a sign of interest and responded something flirty or been super pissed off and blown up at him but I was so done I just messaged back “Do not EVER text me again” and I haven’t heard from him since.
Post # 26
@MexiPino: Crave is an odd choice of words…Reminds me of Samantha James…
I have an ex-boyfriend from high school (I’m 27) who will NOT get the hint that I don’t want to be friends. He texts me “hi” every couples weeks and/or calls me. I’ve never answered either. This has been going on for years. I have been with my Fiance for 7 years and he still tries to contact me. I should have seen the signs though. In high school he used to write me love notes. I have an entire binder of like 600 notes from him. He’s creepy and I wish he’d just move on. Ugh.
Post # 27
What is with guys like that? I had another guy I almost went on a date with, then he got weirdly sexual right before and I canceled. The man sent me pornographic pictures and texts for YEARS after. I never responded to any of them and they would pop up on my phone all the time. Like, seriously, who is sending cock shots at 2pm on a Tuesday? Holy hell.
Post # 29
YES! So cut him off and just be happy with your SO 🙂
Post # 31
Fiance has a crazy “ex” (can’t even really call her that) who we think contacted him (but then recalled it) a few weeks ago – through her current bf’s FB page. Um. Really? Live your own life b*atch.