(Closed) Crazy Ex Texted Me!

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Post # 17
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2144 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I had a crazy guy I went on 2 dates with the summer before I met my husband. He was beyond crazy, he actually texted me after our 2nd date, saying he wanted to “tie you up in the back seat of my car and f*** all your holes.” Needless to say I didn’t go on any more dates with that lunatic. He kept trying for about a month after, texting me and calling, asking to hang out and saying he missed me. Eventually he just gave up.

Then a couple of weeks ago I’m in bed with my hubby and he texts me saying hi and he was wondering how I was doing. It had been about 3 years since I talked to this wierdo. So I just texted him back that I’m awesome and just got married. He said he was happy for me and asked if we had any kids yet and so on and that was it. The next day my hubby took my phone while I was cooking and texted him “No but he wants to f*** all my holes.” So he texts back “I’m glad he enjoys all your holes lol I don’t blame him.” It was pretty hilarious.

Post # 19
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596 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

I’ve been with my Fiance for over 6 years now. I STILL get facebook messages & texts from an ex. It’s typically a “Your Fiance is so lucky, I wish I still had a chance, blah blah blah”. Depending on the message, I may ignore it, or I may respond with something snarky.

But occasionally if he messages me and it’s late and he’s been drinking – it’s usually about some gross sexual act and I ignore it. He apologizes and I go about six months without hearing from him.

Some guys are just stupid.

Post # 20
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

DO NOT TEXT HIM BACK. It will only lead to more texting and then you’ll never get rid of him. Been there; done that.

Post # 21
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405 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

@MexiPino:  After breaking up with my long term boyfriend, I rebounded with a man I worked with who was 9 years older than me. I was 19 or 20. We dated for 9 months. He ended up being the most physically/emotionally abusive and manipulative person I have ever met in my life. After my mom’s pleading and after a really bad physical abuse incident happened, I finally ‘woke up’ and broke it off with him. He went insane and blew up my phone with the most disgusting, misogynistic, cruel, perverted text messages. I had to block his number. And of course, since we worked together (he was a very high level engineer), it just made things so awkward. He actually started harrassing me at work through my personal emails and work IM chats. It got so bad I had to tell my higher ups which caused my higher up to speak to HIS higher up. How embarrassing, right? To have my boss at a very well-known/prestigious company know about my dirty laundry? They told him to leave me alone and to stop harrassing me. They even moved my cube to a different department.

It was okay for a few weeks or maybe a couple months although I was continously strategizing my lunches and my coffee breaks so I would NOT run into him. I would pray and cross my fingers everytime. Finally, one morning he sent me an email making the grossest and most sexual remark about my Facebook profile picture which I don’t even know how he saw since I blocked him from Facebook. I told my higher up and BOOM, that day he got fired for sexual harrassment. This very successful, high level engineer got fired in a matter of minutes after he sent me that message. 

To this day, I’m really proud of this company that didn’t stand for any harrassment and was not afraid to fire psychotic bullies…even if they were great ’employees’.

BASICALLY CRAZY EXES ARE THE WORST

 

Post # 24
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1040 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@Nona99:  Totally snort-laughed in the office at that one!

Post # 25
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1460 posts
Bumble bee

I had given a guy an ultimatum to either move forward genuinely or we’d leave it alone for good (after a hundred years of off and on and off). I told him the worst thing he could do was leave me hanging and not let me know what he’d decided to do. So of course that’s what he did…I took my answer from that. I was living happily ever after and this fool had the balls to text me on Thanksgiving of last year “Happy Thanksgiving Kay, be good.” The old me, all vested in half-love, would have either taken this as a sign of interest and responded something flirty or been super pissed off and blown up at him but I was so done I just messaged back “Do not EVER text me again” and I haven’t heard from him since.  

Post # 26
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371 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

 @MexiPino: Crave is an odd choice of words…Reminds me of Samantha James…

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I have an ex-boyfriend from high school (I’m 27) who will NOT get the hint that I don’t want to be friends.  He texts me “hi” every couples weeks and/or calls me.  I’ve never answered either.  This has been going on for years.  I have been with my Fiance for 7 years and he still tries to contact me.  I should have seen the signs though. In high school he used to write me love notes.  I have an entire binder of like 600 notes from him.  He’s creepy and I wish he’d just move on.  Ugh.

 

 

Post # 28
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371 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

double post

Post # 29
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3507 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

@MexiPino:  YES! So cut him off and just be happy with your SO 🙂

Post # 30
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371 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

@MexiPino:  LOL “who is sending cock shots at 2pm on a Tuesday? Holy hell.”




 

 

Post # 31
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2564 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

Fiance has a crazy “ex” (can’t even really call her that) who we think contacted him (but then recalled it) a few weeks ago – through her current bf’s FB page.  Um.  Really?  Live your own life b*atch.

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