(Closed) Crazy Ex Texted Me!

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Post # 32
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

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@MsJ2theZ:  Done in one. I can’t think of a better reply.

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@MexiPino:  Crave? Ew. Yeah, no.

Post # 33
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

My ex-husband likes to do this every 6 months to a year. We didn’t have a happy divorce. He was cheating on me, ruined my credit / ran up tons of debt in my name, and was very emotionally abusive / manipulative. We’ve been divorced now for over 8 years, and he’s been married to the girl he cheated on me with since about 6 months after our divorce.

For a while, his reason for contacting me was that he wanted to see the dog we’d previously had together. At that point, the dog hadn’t seen him in at least 3 years, so I refused. (He was originally supposed to make arrangements for the dog to live with him or his family when we split, but then that totally fell through, and I ended up making it work to keep the dog with me in the tiny apartment I had to get. Not to mention that my dog was so upset about the move that he got seriously ill, and I had to nurse him back to health. In my opinion, he abandoned both of us and didn’t deserve to have contact with the dog.)

Lately, he’s been on a kick of wanting to be friends with me, and for a while that he wanted me back. I used to write him back and tell him that basically, not even on a cold day in hell did I want to get back together with him, and I really just wanted him out of my life. That obviously didn’t stop him from reaching out, so now I just ignore his messages. Now that I’ve remarried, it will be interested to see if he stops.

Post # 34
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

I had an ex who didin’t talk to me for few months then tried to get back with me so I shut down contact then almost a year after that he was back.  The sad thing is while we were dating he always said I would end up with Fiance (we were bst friends) and then when he found out we were actually together, he said he wasn’t surprised.  But then he continued to pull the whole we’re meant to be together crap.  His favorite line was “You’re my Bella” as in Bella from frickin Twilight!!! YUCK.  He was so convinced we were going to get married and live happily ever after even though we had a shit relationship where we fought ALL the time.  He told me I wasn’t really happy with Fiance becuase I was fake smiling in Facebook picture of the two us, way to base my entire relationship off of one facebook picture! He even tried to convince me that my Fiance (then BF) cheated on me while I was away at college, but the dumbass had horrible timing and decided to tell me he saw FI kissing another girl at the movies while Fiance was visiting me! I blocked his number and haven’t heard from him two years, thank goodness, he was a walking train wreck.

Post # 35
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Sugar Beekeeper

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@MsJ2theZ:  LMAO!

 

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@MexiPino:  Crave you huh? Raid the nearest chocolate section at his local supermarket, that seems to do it for me.

I have exes that contact me quite frequently and most of the time I am civil but short or just ignore them altogether. I am not too keen on being friends after a breakup, just gets too awkward and messy.

I recently reconnected with an ex because I am long time friends with his sister. He ended up sending me loads of inappropriate texts and the last straw was sending me a long “I miss you, want you” FB message while in the hospital…waiting for his daughter to be born (which I didn’t even know about)!!! I was so done, icky.

Post # 36
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Helper bee

@MexiPino:  He CRAVES you?!  Girl I’m so sorry…what a crazy douche.

Yes girl, yes, I do have a story to share…MY crazy ex broke up with me in the middle of a Disney movie…and then had the nerve to call me/text me incessantly six months later out of the blue.  It started on Facebook-he said he wanted to add me because he had a “life goal” of being friends on there with everyone he’d ever met in real life…um, NO.  

After I denied it with no response, he started texting me, not saying anything too crazy, but just trying to get me to respond.  Finally, after about a week of this he texts me and says that he “recently got some news” he needs to talk to me about…I asked him if it involved any type of testing and he says “yes…”

So needless to say, I flip my [email protected]#*, even though I had recently been tested and was fine…he calls me and lets me know that he had an HIV test…however, the test was negative.  -___-.  So basically, he only said this so I’d be sure to answer the phone.

I got tested again and blocked his number.

 

 

 

Post # 37
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I would either a)text back “huh?” and then tell him that he has the phone number of a teenaged boy or b)ignore it and make him think you’ve changed your number.

Post # 39
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@MexiPino:  Ewww what a [email protected]! And “crave”? That about made me throw up in my mouth!

It’s been a while since I heard from an ex, but I did recently hear from an old highschool friend on my birthday in June. Via PM on facebook, he said

“Happy Birthday Puddin! I’ve always had the biggest crush on you….it’s too late now though, right? BIG LOVE baby! *his phone number* throw me a text if you want *winky face* Hugs and Kisses baby!”

Erm….hahaha….what?

By the way, I’m MARRIED. He knows that. I ignored it, then announced on Facebook 3 days later that my husband and I are expecting our first child. He did not comment, and I haven’t heard back from him.

Post # 42
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@MexiPino:  He is fishing for NSA sex.  That’s what crave means.  If you don’t want to hear from him again, tell him so, in no uncertain terms – i.e. “Do not contact me again.”

Post # 43
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

@MexiPino:  Eww! You’re not junk food, he can’t “crave” you!

Post # 44
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

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@MexiPino:  Thats what I said! He was such a weirdo.  When he said that to me I was like well chose Jacob dumbass!

Post # 45
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Newbee

I have an ex that I dated when I was 17/18 and he was 24. He was a huge jerk the whole 10 months that we were on and off. Every time we broke up he’d wait til I seemed like I was moving on then he would text me about how it was a mistake to break up, he wanted me back, blah blah blah. Usually met that whatever woman he had set his sights on didn’t want him.

The last time I heard from him was last summer the day after his wedding. I hadn’t talked to him in over a year and he sends me “What are you doing, shouldn’t you be working?” Seriously?

Some men are just dumb lol

Post # 46
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

I’ve had a creepy stalker ex… he was so stupid… He would contact me on and off for years using various phone numbers and try adding me to facebook. He even created a fake fb profile! He would tell me how letting me go was the biggest mistake of his life, he wants to marry me and give me everything my heart desires.

Yeah… Turns out he was married with a kid… He even denied that! Even after I saw them all together! The last thing I said to him is that maybe I should contact his wife, I mean, if he wants a relationship with me then surely I need to at least be civil with her since they do have a kid together… This convo happened all over twitter! Haven’t heard a word from him since! 

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