- 8 years ago
- Wedding: October 2015
I don’t think my ex is crazy but he sends a text every 3-6-8 months or so…lol. I totally know what it’s about…it’s his I just broke up with a girl and I feel lonely text. We’re not on bad terms or anything so we just say our hi’s and catch up a little and then he’s off again…until his next break-up.
This is exactly why I change my cell number every year or so…
So I didn’t hear from him for a while and hoped that meant my “don’t respond” plan worked. Eh. Nope. He tried a different angle a few days ago:
So let’s hope that is that. During our “relationship” we had a couple breakups and “last words”, so I’m not 100% sure he won’t try again. I didn’t even mention having an SO because A) he follows me on twitter so he should know this already and B) I didn’t want to let him think “Oh… I’ll just wait another few months and maybe they’ll break up”.
He’ll text again. He sounds like a glutton for punishment.
There was a guy I had been on again off again with years before, text me though I’d been with my Fiance for awhile. He said he wanted to meet and talk about us. I told him there was nothing to talk about. When I refused to meet up with him he said he loved me and wanted to be with me and all this stuff. When I refused him he texted my Fiance and said all this b.s. about me cheating on my Fiance with him to try to get my fiance to dump me. I just can’t imagine what he was thinking. He would trick my Fiance into breaking up with me and suddenly I’d want to be with him? Well, clearly it didn’t work and I’m getting married to Fiance now.
i had a boyfriend that I was over the moon for. We dated off and on for 4 years and I was pathetic and insecure and basically he could do whatever he wanted and I wouldn’t have left him. Finally, he strings me along as a “back up” then when he finds someone else, drops me and tells me that he never wants to see me again. I was heartbroken but moved on and gained a freakin backbone. I was young and dumb, inexperienced and had zero self confidence.
There was no contact from either of us. Fast forward to a year and a half later and he calls me about 15 times over the course of an hour ON HIS BIRTHDAY around 3 am because he missed me. I didn’t answer any of them and got the last laugh. He’s still with the girl he left me for but they’ve been together like 7 years and still aren’t any closer to getting married.
I have so much more confidence and had a lot of growing up to do and started living life for myself. I don’t even know what I saw in him. I wish him well but don’t care about him at all or even think about him.
It’s funny how things have a way of working out.
My first boyfriend was 10 years older than me. He was very jealous, possesive and at the end of our 8 year relationship I discovered he cheated. Later I learned it was not one, but many times with different women. I was very young but I worked hard and made enough money that We ended up buying a house together because he wanted to get married. Oh the horror now looking back!
Anyway, because of my work, I am on tv sometimes and many years after I broke up with him he would either call when drunk or when he saw me on tv. My bf at the time and I had a very open relationship so he knew about this guy and all the details. I got tired of him calling so I asked my bf at the time to answer the phone everytime the dude called. Needless to say, dude went silent, stopped calling after about the third time and my bf at the time and I had a blast making fun of the idiot ex BF 😛
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