(Closed) Crazy Mom… Feeling Stuck and need a way out (LONG)

posted 7 years ago in Family
Post # 3
352 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@JaneDomani:Oh I am so sorry. I can’t even imagine dealing with someone like that. I think you should find another home for the cats. Those cats need someone who will love them and take care of them. If your mother is as mentally unstable as you make her sound, she shouldn’t be a caregiver to ANYTHING! Check Freecycle.org I know my location does allow users to give away their pets as long as they’re responsible about it.

Post # 4
7431 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

I would definitely find another home for the cats, and then not speak to your mother again

Post # 5
620 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

I’m so sorry to hear that your mother’s life has come to this. I think the best thing that could be done is maybe to try to trick her into getting some help. You could try telling her that a huge number of people have some type of mental issues and that its actually very normal and if she saw a doctor about it maybe he could prescribe somthing to make her feel a little better. If she is religious maybe you could have her priest suggest it to her. People on medication are so much different its really amazing. Try to do everything humanly possible to get her some help you could actually have a mother again if you did. Talk to a doctor and they will tell you that there are all sorts of ways to get a mentally unstable person to agree to see a doctor.

I know that her cats are not your responsibility but cats are really easy to take care of and maybe you are just getting a little too worried about. I think that the cats are not what is actually stressing you out but just what you are going through with your mother. Is there anyone who can help you with her like one of her siblings or one of yours?

I don’t know what to say I’m just so sorry this is happening to you.

Post # 6
1576 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I am feeling sorry for her poor cats! Poor unwanted babies. I hope you can find them a loving forever home.

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