(Closed) Crazy stepmom of the groom – VENT

posted 9 years ago in Emotional
Post # 19
153 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 1994

@moiraine:  Call her damn bluff get the names and numbers of the extra guests and tell them that they can NOT come to the court house!

Post # 21
50 posts
Worker bee

I would also say as LilyBee70 said and call her bluff. Tell the univited to go directly to the ceremony site and NOT to the courthouse. If they showed up anyway I would line up everyone that you want in the room with you. You, your parents, grandparents. and siblings, with the uninvited last in line. When the room is full then the rest (uninvited quests) will have to stay in the hallway or outside. Due to fire codes you can only have so many people in the room and if it is to crowded then the univited would be the first ones out of the room.

Post # 23
5995 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@LilyBee70:  I agree. Phone each of those 10 and *politely* explain the situation. That the courthouse is small and so it is has to be family only. That FSMIL wasn’t aware of how small the room is and made an innocent mistake. With a little luck, these people will be much more reasonable that FSMIL and happily comply.

Post # 24
1098 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

@moiraine:  Keep us updated. Also, she does not get to make a make. That belongs to the mother.

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