(Closed) Crazy wedding anxiety dreams? Share here!

posted 4 years ago in Ceremony
Post # 2
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2015 - Hotel Ballroom

Thats quite the anxiety dream!

Mine were routed in the fact that my estranged family were NOT invited. I kept dreaming that my narcissistic/abusive Mother somehow found out where/when my wedding was, showed up and made a scene, or found creative ways to ruin the wedding. 

Now that I’m pregnant with baby #1, the dreams have come back…only now it’s her causing harm to my child/kidnapping my child/making my life hell.

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2017

I fell asleep on the couch after a day of (very stressful) dress shopping. I dreamed that I didn’t buy the dress I really wanted and that my dad thought I looked horrible in it even though I told him I didn’t want this dress. 

Apparently I was talking in my sleep and saying “I tried, I really did” “I looked everywhere” and woke up in tears. 

Post # 5
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Helper bee

I keep having the same dream – that it’s the day of and nothing is done other than having a ceremony site booked. I show up to the altar in my regular clothes and no makeup on and cry to my Fiance that I forgot to book the MUA, photographer, caterer, etc.

Post # 6
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Blushing bee

I have had a lot of wedding anxiety dreams throughout my wedding planning process. 

One involved me having to plunge a clogged toilet at our reception.

Another was that I forgot to paint my toenails.

Another involved having a bunch of family and friends show up early and we had to feed them food from a schoolhouse cafeteria.

I havent even been that stressed about wedding planning until now (1 month out) but for some reason I have had these crazy dreams the whole time!

 

Post # 7
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Worker bee

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iluvhummingbirds :  I let my bridesmaids choose their own dresses, and felt very uncomfortable dictating what people should wear. I literally told them a general colour scheme and they went wild, which consciously I was happy with, but I guess my subconscious was freaking out because I had a dream that on the day of the wedding my bridesmaids arrived and they were all dressed as cowgirls (the full outfit – pigtails, hats, boots, fringe shirts). 

I was proud of the way my dream-self handled it (“As long as you’re all happy with your outfits it’s fine!”) but my dream self also had a complete panic attack about it in private. When I woke up the first thing I did was message my bridesmaids to tell them about it 😀

I also had a lot of dreams about last minute things that I hadn’t decided (about to walk down the aisle but I forgot what song we wanted, just said our vows but forgot to buy rings etc.) 

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2017

LOL I’m glad I’m not the only one! Most have been just showing up to my wedding but not being prepared… I also have had one where I was really fat on the day before my wedding and stressing that I only had one day to lose a bunch of weight… (I’ve been struggling on and off with trying to “slim down” before my wedding and just not caring… it’s now one month away and I’m the same weight I was a year and a half ago when I bought my dress. Oh well)

the weirdest though was definitely that my brother punched my sister in the face out of nowhere, and so I called off the wedding even though everyone was already there. I was trying to find my fiancé to tell him, and when I finally found him he was a totally different person than my fiancé in real life. 

Post # 9
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: City, State

I dreamt that somehow I was drugged or something and married my FI’s friend and nobody would help me annul the marriage and marry the right guy because it was the wrong thing to do.  And Fiance just thought it was funny when I woke up the next day and found out what happened.  So I was stuck married to the wrong guy. 

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