(Closed) Creepy or Thoughtful?

posted 11 years ago in Beehive
Post # 3
115 posts
Blushing bee

Maybe depends who sent it . . . photographer, videographer, florist, key vendor = sweet and thoughtful.

Waitstaff from catered affair who you didn’t even know was there = creeeeeepppyyyyy!

Post # 4
65 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: August 2008

Maybe I’m jaded because I work in marketing but….I would probably think that they were trying to ‘remind’ me about them so I recommended them to any of my friends that were getting married.

Post # 5
33 posts
  • Wedding: July 2008

I think its a nice gesture.

Post # 6
116 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2008

I would think that is good marketing/networking — not creepy, but not so much thoughtful, either, since they’re probably doing it for their own benefit (like AmandaRyan suggested)!

Post # 7
1718 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2008 - Winery in the Gold Country

It pretty much equates to sending your clients christmas cards.  Nice, but also a reminder that they’re out there, and to tell your friends!  Definitely not "creepy" however 🙂

Post # 8
291 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2007

Truly thoughtful if it included a personal, handwritten message that clearly indicated they remembered your specific wedding.

Neither if it is a marketing effort.  Well, I guess it is a*little* thoughtful, even if it is is an attempt to gain referrals.  As long as you were happy with their service!  

I did think it was cute that the tux shop guy sent us a "Congratulations" note right after my hubs went to the shop to go try out tuxes, and then put down a $5 commitment deposit. I thought it was more cute b/c he addressed it to us BOTH instead of just my guy…who went by himself and the best man.  I was completely uninvolved.


Post # 9
149 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2007

We received a handwritten note from our musician, just saying that she played at our venue again for another wedding and thought of us.  We thought it was extremely sweet.  If I was particularly close to a client, I would probably send an anniversary card too.  I can see that some would do it purely for marketing/advertising reasons, but some people are genuine.

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