(Closed) Criteria for a "Wedding Worthy" Friend

posted 6 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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409 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@doubtingdebbieah:  If you invited them to the engagement party, you should invite them to the wedding. 

 

We had a lot of fringy friends that we enjoy hanging out with, but don’t see very often.  We just asked ourselves – If we saw this person after the wedding, would it be awkward because they weren’t invited?

 

Post # 4
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2622 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

If its not an easy answer, I would lean towards do not invite them.

But of you need criteria I would ask these questions

Would they ask me to their wedding?

Will I still be as close or closer in 3-5 years?

Am I friendly with them because I like them or because its convenient for some reason?

If they were invited to the engagement party, they should be invited.

Post # 5
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9551 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013

Only invite people you would feel comfortable calling up to hang out with on a random evening. Or if you want a more exclusive group, only invite people you would ask to get a ride to the airport.

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