(Closed) crying over broken glass… First breakdown!

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Ahhh I totally feel you! Its the little things that can set you off..you just have to keep your emotions in check. Mine happened in June..I had the food tasting planned for one evening at 5, but Fiance and I had to take seperate trains to get there from work…Fiance had a straight shot there and I had to transfer.

.Long story short, Fiance made it to the town and a HUGE storm hit when I was in the middle of transfering trains. The new train was no longer running and I was going to miss the tasting!! I realized that I was going to miss the tasting and I called the coordinator to see what to do. I could have canceled but Fiance wasn’t going to take another day off work and either was I. I told Fiance to just go without me since he was already there and he took the earlier train. I started BAWLING in the middle of the train station.  I’m talking hysterical sobs and one Police officer had to come over and asked if I was ok. In between sobs I told him I was sorry I was overreacting but I was going to miss my tasting. He looked at me like I was nuts! 

Fiance felt so bad that he said that he wasn’t going to go and I can take one of my friends the next time. I wound up settling down and hiccuping and telling him to just go because it made sense.

The nice part is when he got home he had brought me a ” doggie” bag with all the menu choices, a bottle of wine and flowers. ๐Ÿ™‚ I’m so lucky!!!

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Are you kidding? I was pissed about everything and then the morning of you just kinda go ‘oh well’. 

Post # 6
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

I totally agree!  once it’s done they will learn ๐Ÿ˜€

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

@Firinne:  poor you and poor Fiance, but those things happen, even when not wedding planning, if its not breaking something it could be losing something.  Of course when wedding planning things get waaay more stressful, but he made it right and you guys are ok so dont let it worry you.  It could have been way more expensive.  I saw a poor guy drop a whole vase with flowers in it a few weeks ago when crossing the road with his (wife?) and felt so sorry for him/them.  They had just walked out of an expensive gallery and I could just see how upset they both were.  But it is just a thing, not someones health. Is it worth reusing it if people could see the cracks?

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

@Firinne:  oh ok I was imagining a clear glass vase where people would see cracks. If you can cover it then use it and I guess you ended up with 2 :-).  Dont put too much energy into it though as you suggest, not worth worrying over.  Im sure it will look amazing. We had to change our date & print out a second lot of Save-The-Date Cards, and pay for flight changes etc but at the end of the day who cares, if money isnt spent on this its spent on other things anyway.  Good luck with rest of planning ๐Ÿ™‚

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