(Closed) Curious about all you married bees :)

posted 9 years ago in Married Life
  • poll: We did...

    Fight

    Not Fight

  • Post # 32
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

    My husband and I hardly ever fight, so our odds of fighting on our honeymoon were very low anyway (we didn’t), however, I have noticed that we haven’t ever gotten in a fight while we weren’t at home (i.e. vacation, visiting family etc.).  That said, we went to vegas with two other couples and both of those couples (one was engaged, the others just dating) fought and broke up during our Vegas trip… the engaged couple ended up working things out… But I think it has something to do with Vegas. lol

    Post # 33
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: June 2010

    I voted that we fought.  We don’t have full out screaming matches, alone or in public, but we did have a few minor disagreements.  We went to our wedding, got up the next morning for a brunch, and then took a red eye flight to our honeymoon, so we’d had about 4 hours sleep in two days and were tired and short tempered. 

    Then we got lost in the airport and couldn’t find our shuttle to our hotel, and there were definitely harsh whispers being exchanged about who didn’t print the airport map or the phone number for the shuttle, and whether we should turn our data plan in a foreign country at 16 bucks per MB or something ridiculous to look at the email again…

    Post # 34
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    Bumble bee

    We did.. he gets mad over little things and didn’t want to do some of the romantic things I wanted to do :/ they were only a couple 15min arguments, but I was really upset. He always ends up fighting with me when I plan something romantic.. Overall, we had a good honeymoon though when he lightened up.

    Post # 35
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: December 2011

    Not in a way that anyone else would have known but I was ready to murder my brand new husband because he didn’t bring his credit card on our once ib a lifetime intentional honeymoon. Mine was still a student card with a low limit so beyond food we had NO spending money. I didn’t get most the things I wanted but it turned out okay anyway. 

    Post # 36
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    Worker bee
    • Wedding: July 2012 - Parkwood International Golf Course

    We didn’t fight on our honeymoon, but then we don’t fight much anyway.

    My husband did get a little annoyed at me when we got lost in Tokyo but then decided to come up with a really random/cute song about being lost while we were wandering around which helped me be less stressed out and made us both laugh it off haha

    Post # 37
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    Bumble bee

    We didn’t fight on our honeymoon but we sure did fight in Las Vegas. I blame temps over 100 degrees F for that. Maybe that is what’s making those honeymooners you see fight so much.

    Post # 38
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    No we didn’t. But we don’t really fight anyway. If we disagree on an issue we tend to just talk it through and if one of us doesn’t get our way it’s usually because the other decision made the most sense to us both..i dunno..we just get on extremely well in that sense..we cuddle a lot instead!! 🙂

    Post # 39
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    Busy bee

    We didn’t fight. But then again, we rarely ever fight.

    Post # 40
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: July 2010

    I think it depends.  Not really, I don’t think we did, then again, travel is stressful, so it would be possible to overhear someone being tired or grouchy- that might have happened to us.  But not fighting about some big issue, no.  And, Vegas is stressful!  Yuck!  I would not want to go there with crowds of people, that probably would make me grouchy.  I think of honeymoon as a place to get away.

    Post # 41
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    no, we’re not really the fighing type.  just relaxation and happiness.

    Post # 42
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    We didn’t fight. But we don’t fight normally. In 6 years together I think we’ve had two arguments. Not to say we always agree on everything, but we talk about it instead of fighting about it.

    Post # 43
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    We snipped at each other a few times, mostly due to tiredness and/or hunger.  We had a very active honeymoon in St. Lucia that included climbing one of the Pitons, and that’s a not very long but very hard hike up very steep trails with incredibly large boulders. I wanted to stop at 3/4, DH didn’t, and I went the rest of the way, but then hurt myself coming back down due to fatigue. I was so tired, dehydrated, and in pain that there were definitely a few tense moments.  But we didn’t have any like, real fights or arguments.

    Post # 44
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    No, we don’t really fight. Maybe 3x in our relationship. But we did have a small disagreement in the rental car line over which gas package to get. I was amused by the irony 🙂

    Post # 45
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    I voted fight, but it’s really more like small disagreements and then we talk through it and we’re over it. We had two disagreements on our 5 day honeymoon. For one, we had been drinking by the pool all day and I got my feelings hurt about something stupid, I can’t even remember what it was. That sometimes happens when I get drunk lol. The second one was on our last night when we couldn’t agree on what to do after dinner. It had started raining and we were both tired and sunburned so I blame that. 🙂

    ETA- I commend those of you that never fight! That’s just not my personality I guess.

    Post # 46
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    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

    We almost lost our flight back because we couldn’t find the way back to the rental park… so we had some very stressfull / unhappy like 45 minutes. But we were in the car, lost, riding through LA… After we did and got a ride to the airport, everything was cool again!  

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